D-Bag Of The Day: Matt Barber Pens Condescending Letter To Gay Teens PDF Print
Written by Jonathan Higbee | Monday, 25 February 2013
Tags: dbag of the day, matt barber, hate groups, lgbt youth

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Hate group leader Matt Barber has probably put the Trevor Project on high alert thanks to a horrifically dangerous and condescending message to gay teens that he's penned. 

In a proselytizing message of hope hate, Matt instructs who he refers to as "gay" teens to ignore how god made them so that said god doesn't damn them and their loved ones to an eternity of torture. 

Matt writes:

I love you. I neither judge you nor condemn you. I accept you and I would die for you. But you are not 'gay.' 

Yes, you may be physically attracted to people of the same sex, but how you act on those attractions is entirely your choice. Who you are – your identity – is not defined by your sexual feelings, temptations or behaviors. The difference between who you are and what you feel or do is as the difference between night and day.

Here is who you are: You are a wonderful, beautiful, precious human being created in the image and likeness of the one righteous and Holy God of the universe.

You are priceless. But you are flawed – you are a sinner. Homosexual behavior is always wrong – demonstrably and absolutely wrong. Period.

God’s word also says that when we sin sexually, it’s particularly egregious because our bodies are the temple of Christ. This separation from God – a natural result of sexual sin – can lead to depression and even despair.

If you feel such despair, know this: it is not “homophobia” causing it, as adult enablers might tell you, but, rather, it is the sin itself that causes it (or struggling alone, absent Christ, with the temptation to sin). [...]

If you continue down this wide, empty path, make no mistake: it will not “get better.”

It gets much, much worse. [...]

Kids, take your sexual confusion – your struggle with sin – to Christ.

No one else can give you rest.

Let's paraphrase one of the key misleading messages from the bigot:

"That depression and inadequacy you feel is actually not caused by people like me telling you that you're an abomination, it's caused by my interpretation of the Bible." 

Potato, potahhhhhto.

I don't even think Matt is attempting to help anyone here. It is clear not just by the content but by the scare quotes around "gay" teens that his only mission is to stoke the flames of hatred and bigotry. Maybe he's hoping to instill a sense of self-hatred early in the lives of LGBT youths in the off chance they end up like him?

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written by Dick Z, February 25, 2013
If it does "get worse", it is because of people like Matt Barber and their messages of hate. How could they possibly consider themselves Christian? The loving, accepting Jesus I knew would never behave like this.
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written by krystalkleer40, February 25, 2013
Timothy Wirth and siggytau...did YOU 2 have a brain tumor fer breakfast?...it's ok to be born gay...but not act on it?...hmmm..so if that's the logic you wanna go with ...then by your way of thinking means...apparently you can be total self loathing finger point'n dipshit...but you can't act on that either...WAIT!!...i smell loop hole!
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written by Redbird, February 25, 2013
So basically some people believe that gay teens should spend their ENTIRE existence (from childhood until death), feeling ashamed and afraid of living their lives and NEVER be allowed to experience full happiness both spiritually and physically and emotionally?

That is the most idiotic thing ever.

Also, if you believe that you should spend your lives suppressing who you are, then congratulations, you are an unappreciative jerk-hole towards your own creator. You have given God the ultimate middle finger and told him to go **** himself, because you know what you are doing? You are WASTING the gift that he gave you and you are acting like a selfish little brat who thinks your know better than him because of something written in a book that has had more edits to it than a wiki entry.

The idea that God ALLOWS a group of people who carry around the supposed "sin" of homosexuality, while allowing the larger majority to not even think about it, seems really odd. I mean, if God didn't want people to be gay, then why doesn't he just remove that from humanity's "database"? After all, it would save him a LOT of trouble, wouldn't it? Why intentionally take good, kind and sweet people, and force them to live with a "sin" that is going to make them miserable in this world and the next?

If you're gay, then it means God wanted you to be. Otherwise, you'd be straight. Be happy how he made you, and trying to correct him. He's god. I doubt he appreciates you people telling him that he made you wrong and I doubt he appreciates people wasting what he gave them.
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written by Dev, February 25, 2013
Ignorance is bliss. Hiding behind the bible to express your deep rooted hatred in a "nice" way, is an abomination. As a devout christian, humanitarian, and a human being, I believe condemning anyone for their actions is a right solely reserved for God. If you truly come from any religious house of christianity, that would hold true in your mind.

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