"Gay-Friendly" Mom Complains About LA's Manhunt Billboards PDF Print
Written by Brandon Rolph | Tuesday, 29 November 2011

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One Los Angeles mom (who considers herself a liberal feminist and friend of the gays) was in an uproar because she had no way of explaining to her son why two men would want to be intimate with each other. Read what she had to say about the Manhunt billboards after the jump.

In the key of "woe, is me," Kelly Cole may have been instrumental in getting Manhunt billboards removed from Southern California. She begins her rant by saying, "I never thought this would be me: A liberal feminist complaining about a sex-positive, homosexual billboard."

But it is her. And she is having a hard time explaining to her "fourth-grader the fact that some people like to find causal sex partners fast using their mobile phones."

In a country where, on any given freeway, you might see a billboard for Candy or Crystal posing suggestively and inviting people to watch them strip, it's ludicrous to think that these billboard's incite her "child’s premature loss of innocence." Maybe she can't think of an easy way to explain these two men because there are few examples of two men being romantic together in the media, whereas her son wouldn't even question the image of a man and a woman.

Here is her question that she asked Lamar Advertising Execs:

“No matter what one's politics, religious beliefs, or moral compass says about this, does it not seem obvious that this ad is inappropriately placed when it becomes forced viewing for hundreds of children daily?”

We aren't promoting these images to kids, but kids are found everywhere. There are many questions here. 1) Do you think she has underlying homophobia? 2) Even if it's not appropriate for children to see, do you think there is a negative bias for billboards like this? 3) Should all sexual billboards be taken down?

Maybe it's not the billboard at all, maybe it's that the billboard ignites a conversation (in which the vocabulary for such is just now being developed) that people like Kelly fear most.

(Source and image source: StudioCityPatch)

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written by Nolo73, November 30, 2011
It's homophobia in the fear sense. I don't believe she hates gays but straight people never realize what it means when they say they are for gays to have equality.They don't want to see it.I'm out to family by word but not by actions mainly because I hear their comments about homosexuality.They say they're OK but then they don't want to see it.Maybe it will make them rethink the idea that any sexual billboards should be put up at all?It's proof that once people see sex all the time they get used to it cause she doesn't have to explain heterosexual sex billboards now does she?It's disappointing though to see this company not go with two men showing love instead of sex knowing how in the closet everyone is about homosexuality.I have it planned to gently express myself to them about what it is to be gay to me.Couldn't they used baby steps first?Straight people are like virgins when it comes to homosexuality, you don't have sex with them on the first date,show them who you are first.We talk about being gay isn't just about sex and we end up representing our love with sex in a billboard. Great idea!
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written by B, November 30, 2011
Let's go have a kiss-in on her front porch until she figures out how to talk to her kids about it. An "Ally" who only wants only neutered depictions of gay men in public is not an ally. I'm looking forward to the day when holding my husband's hand is not a political act and the only way that hand-holding will be just hand-holding (as opposed to rubbing it in their faces) is when straight people get over their privileged little existence and accept us fully into their disgusting hyper-sexualized world. Little miss "liberal feminist friend" is not helping us reach that goal.
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written by Hap, November 30, 2011
Homophobia. She's not worried about the naked women on billboards = homophobia.
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written by Uptonking, November 30, 2011
So... this is really about her, mainly her deficiencies as a parent and a communicator. Really? Her self-proclaimed liberal ass can't figure out a way to explain why two men might want to be intimate with one another? Yet she has no trouble sitting down and writing a rather articulate diatribe denouncing the presence of a billboard that is no more sexual than the average perfume ad. Seems to me the letter is a knee jerk reaction - yes, a homophobic one. Maybe she should have talked to one her gay friends before making a fool of herself. Or maybe she just saw this as her ticket to the big league. Many media whores have sprung from smaller beginnings. Bottom line? Maybe she should concern herself with being a better parent. Maybe it's time she had 'the talk' with her son. You know - the one where she teaches tolerance and acceptance. The one where she explains that there are many kinds of love in the world. The kind any self-proclaimed liberal is educated and articulate enough to share. But she won't. She'll be too busy doing the talk show circuit (circuit queen?). Bet she runs for school board next. And, if Michele Bachmann is any indication, will eventually be running for president. Sad world.
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written by GG, November 30, 2011
I am a 32 year old gay man and I saw one of these Manhunt billboards literally right outside the Red School House on Highland Ave in Hollywood at Fountain. I obviously did not find the same-sex depiction of the men as objectionable. I did, however, find the sexually driven advertisement as objectionable close to the school. A half-naked woman and man in the throws of passion on a billboard advertising hook-ups/ sex apps out side that school would not be acceptable either. I also do not agree with the billboards of Candy or Chrystal or SexCON or AdultCON either (as the article illustrates) for the record. Gay right (and gay public displays of affection) are absolutely worth fighting for but at some time we need to draw the line in the sand on what we are going to encompass in that fight. Do we really want to march on Washington and go to court for the advertisement of sex apps outside schools? I like sex and porn just as much as the next guy (gay or straight) but it is one thing to be "sex-positive" and another to be inappropriately lewd - especially, in the case I am referring to, out side an elementary school.
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written by BenjaminA, November 30, 2011
Too bad she's a liberal feminist. Otherwise I'm sure FOX would deploy their special victims unit (Hannity) to paint her as a moral crusader and get her a book deal. Party Foul =(
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written by Troy Brown, December 06, 2011
Dude.... I wish we had those signs here in Houston, TX. smilies/wink.gif
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written by Christian Figueroa, February 08, 2012
I suspect she should explain those billboards to her kids the same way she explains the half naked women selling themselves at mens' clubs on billboards. Or maybe why a burger commercial has a half naked woman washing a car. There are a LOT more of those.
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written by melinda, June 01, 2012
from what I read, i feel that its the sexual content of the billboard she has an issue with. not the fact that it's two guys almost kissing. If it was a scantily clad guy and girl advertisement I feel that she would be equally upset by it.
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written by CB88, November 02, 2012
I agree with GG and Melinda, for me it comes down to just being inappropriate. Why do we need a bilboard like that up anyways, Gay or Straight? Every gay man knows a site or app like that and I'm sure the Hetero's have the same thing, we don't need to post it. America is losing its class.

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