He Likes Them Because They're Zebra Striped, Not Because They're Pink PDF Print
Written by Instinct Staff | Monday, 30 January 2012
Tags: culture, internet, sam, hold me closer tony danza, kids, gender, identity, pink shoes, gay, homophobia, adults, trans, lgbt, youth

zebra shoes

An incredible mom told her 5-year-old son, Sam, that he could pick out whatever shoes he liked from the store to wear for his first day to pre-school. These are the shoes he wanted, and though nobody gave him grief at school over his selection, once Sam's mom posted the picture to Facebook it was the adults who became bullies. Details follow.

After selecting the pink flats, Sam's mom kindly pointed out that the shoes were meant for girls. "Ninjas can wear pink shoes, too," Sam replied.

Sam's sister takes the story from there on her cheekily-titled "Hold Me Closer Tony Danza":

Sam went to preschool and got several compliments on his new shoes. Not one kid said anything negative toward him about it. 

However, my mom received about 20 comments on the photo from various family members saying how “wrong” it is and how “things like this will affect him socially” and, put most eloquently by my great aunt, “that shit will turn him gay.” 

My mom then deleted the photo and told Sam that he can wear whatever he wants to preschool, that it’s his decision. If he wants to wear pink shoes, he can wear pink shoes.

Sam then explained to her that he didn’t like them because they were pink, he liked them because they were “made out of zebras” and zebras are his favorite animal :)

Bullying one's own nephew? Classy!

What does it say about society when a group of adults could stand to take a lesson in humanity from a class of pre-schoolers? 

 

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written by Gobear, January 30, 2012
Sounds like my family. I guarantee these people are fundie Christians, because they take such pleasure in cruelty to children.
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written by david olsen, January 30, 2012
buisness oppurtunity?
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written by RobHeathers, January 30, 2012
"They are made out of zebras..." Oh-dear, the boy needs to be taught now they were made by kids younger than him in Vietnam, and zebras aren't pink. Also, wearing anything animal (minus leather) will also give you a bunch of hate-mail.
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written by John D., January 30, 2012
It says these people grew up in a different era and were taught incorrectly. The mother is doing the right thing. All she can do is gently but firmly remind her relations that she is raising her son as she sees fit and she has determined this is his decision to make. He is so fortunate to have such an enlightened mother.
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written by Phulosophy, January 30, 2012
Amen to that. Sam and his mom have my respect.
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written by JuliaMae, December 12, 2012
Ohhhhh .....THAT'S how you get to be gay - it's all about the shoes! (Babe Paley would agree, of course.)

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