Matt Bomer Discusses Coming Out Publicly, Doesn't Want To Be Known As A "Gay" Actor PDF Print
Written by Instinct Staff | Tuesday, 26 June 2012
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Matt Bomer might be the (flawless) face of the new Celebrity Coming Out Method™ (which includes a subtle mention in random interviews or public appearances and a lack of fanfare as its hallmarks), but he doesn't shy away from discussing the importance of coming out publicly in an interview with E!'s Marc Malkin.

Reports Malkin:

"I never really endeavored to hide anything," Bomer, 34, told me this weekend while promoting his new movie, Magic Mike. "But there were times I chose not to relegate my history to the back page of a magazine, which to me is sort of akin to putting your biography on a bathroom wall."

"I had somebody from the military approach me a few weeks ago just saying how this helps people, affects people," Bomer said. "It brought me to tears."

I go so far as to suggest that he could be saving young gay people's lives. "I hope so," he said. "They need saving, certainly in this day and age as much as ever—no matter how much we think we've progressed."

"What we really have to do is stop the adjective before the job title—whether it's 'black actor,' a 'gay actor' or 'anything actor,'" Bomer said. "Everybody thinks that equality comes from identifying people, and that's not where equality comes from. Equality comes from treating everybody the same regardless of who they are. I hope the media and the press catches on to that because it's time to move out of 1992."

How do you feel about Matt wanting to ditch the pride that comes with the "gay" adjective?

(Source: E!)

 

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written by Serafin 22, June 26, 2012
As long as gay kids are still killing themselves because they feel like they are alone and don't have anyone to look up to, I disagree with Matt and prefer to follow Harvey Milk's wisdom about being out and proud of who you are.
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written by DIck Z, June 26, 2012
I agree with everything that Matt says, except that the time to move out goes back much further than 1992. How about 1969 when the Stonewall Revolution began.
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written by Kinkeree , June 26, 2012
Dick he chooses that time because the media was never going to change pre the 80's. The 90's was a monumental shift in culture for race, sexuality and gender. Which is why he is using that time. I think he knows a lot about Stonewall.

And Serafin, he also mentions gay kids...so what's your point?
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written by Donald C, June 26, 2012
I like him. But would tend to disagree. Until we are free from discrimination, we need to keep coming out in droves and saying who we are and what we are: Gay Americans.
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written by Patrick W-M, June 26, 2012
Oh do shut up Donald. No one needs to do anything or say anything. We are not gay Americans you fool, we are simply Americans. Continuing to phrase it as "Gay Americans" makes it sound like we are trying to be MORE than the straight people, and we don't want more, we want the same. If you want more, then you are just an ass and simply need to go away because you hurt any forward progress we gain.
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written by Marquis L, June 26, 2012
Donald,

I am not, nor have I ever been, a Gay American. Likewise, I have never been an African American. I am black and gay. I am an American. Putting an adjective before the American makes it sound like I don't have the same rights as a regular American.
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written by miami doug, June 26, 2012
Well, the truth of the matter is-I am a gay American. Just like my brother is a heterosexual American, or my friend is a black American or my neighbor is a female American. I like it when we don't have to guess weather someone is gay or not. I still agree with Harvey Milk-we should "come out" and state who we are without shame. I think if enough of us did this people eventually would be more accepting of "gay Americans". Yes-I'm gay and Yes-I'm American. That makes me a "gay American" doesn't it.
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written by miami doug, June 26, 2012
I do agree that when it comes to your occupation-no one wants to become known as the gay waiter, the gay salesman, the gay dentist or for that matter the gay actor.
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written by WenSaks, June 26, 2012
Ummmm, who's Matt Bomer?
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written by DIck Z, June 26, 2012
Hey Wensaks

Where do you live? Mars?

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