'Shahs Of Sunset' Star Lilly Ghalichi Apologizes For AIDS Joke PDF Print
Written by Instinct Staff | Monday, 10 December 2012
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Fans of Bravo's Shahs Of Sunset pointed Instinct toward an off-color remark made by season 2 newcomer Lilly Ghalichi in the new episode from the popular reality series. In the episode, Lilly jokes about AIDS being spread from a used pair of bikini bottoms, setting off an online deluge of irate fans leaving comments on Bravo's blog, Lilly's Facebook page and anywhere a mention of the show can be found. We had to get to the bikini bottom of the matter, so we reached out to Lilly herself and gave her a chance to explain.

What does Lilly have to say about the AIDS joke she made on Shahs of Sunset?

First, a clip of the remark:

Lilly Ghalichi responded swiftly to our request for comment, telling Instinct:

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First off, I would like to apologize to everyone for the inaccurate and unacceptable joke. AIDS is a very serious disease and there is nothing funny about it.

Secondly, I am so ashamed that I of all people made a comment to further the stigma of AIDS. Clearly I am intelligent enough to know that you cannot spread AIDS via a soiled swimsuit, however I was not intelligent at all at that moment to make a joke about it.

What I was intending to allude to were certain STDS or infections, which for example you 100% can spread crabs from a soiled swimsuit. AIDS, however, is not transmittable via a soiled swimsuit and I am mortified with myself for making a joke that implies it can be.

I am not a perfect person, and having cameras follow you around 24-7 is difficult. We all make inappropriate jokes and say things we shouldn't have in our private moments. The difference is my life is exposed to the world; I don't have private moments. Because of this, I should be held to a higher standard, and I truly do apologize for what I said. It is inexcusable.

To anyone struggling with the disease, or that may have family or friends fighting the disease, I am the most sorry to you. I am a very loving person and I hope anyone offended by the comment will find it in their heart to forgive me and give me another chance.

I am going to contact the AIDS Awareness Society to try and make a statement with them letting everyone know how inaccurate and unacceptable my joke was. In my heart I want nothing more than to help destroy the ridiculous stigmas associated with HIV and AIDS. I apologize to everyone for my ridiculous joke, and I hope one day I can use my platform to help AIDS Awareness.

What do you think of Lilly's response?

(Images: Bravo)

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written by Gene Kitsing, December 10, 2012
I watch the show and was taken aback by Lily's joke but really think this apology is from the heart. Everyone makes mistakes and I'm still her fan.
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written by LKeels, December 10, 2012
I'm more offended by her use of the incorrect phrase "shouldn't of" to be honest.
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written by Randy Paul, December 10, 2012
I think she is one classy Lady and I feel that the apology is totally sincere.
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written by ..., December 10, 2012
I think we all make mistakes and make jokes we do not want others to hear. It was wrong but she apologized and that is what matters. Lets move on.
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written by new lilly fan, December 10, 2012
I honestly feel that her apology is sincere and she meant every word. I saw the episode and know that her statement was literally just at the top of her head and unfortunately she said it. Other than that, I'm still a fan because she owned up to her mistake and did something about it!!
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written by HIV Awareness Advocate, December 10, 2012
Though she made this joke, we know she and the rest of the Shahs of Sunset have spoken out against HIV-stigma. Just check out this video from AIDS Healthcare Foundation on ending HIV-stigma featuring the cast of Shahs of Sunset! bit.ly/Vl10JI
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written by shafan, December 13, 2012
It was an off the cuff comment and she's appologized. Let's move on!
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written by Farrokh, December 17, 2012
She should volunteer at an AIDS hospice. Let's see if she holds, comforts, and sincerely feels for people living with AIDS. She would have NEVER made such a comment (I won't say joke, because nothing about it was funny), if she had witnessed the disease first-hand or had true understanding and empathy for those infected. She would also grow up realizing that superficiality, vanity, and crass vulgar comments impress very few genuine loving people- the warm grounded authentically beautiful people I've met while volunteering at an AIDS hospice. My lover is HIV+, and I'm negative. Such comments as Lilly's are so ignorant and immature as to be sadly reflective of her empty heart or head.
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written by Corey Andrew, December 20, 2012
I was someone who protested and wrote in to the network when she made the comment about AIDS. I must say her apology seems very genuine and there is truly a sense of regret in her words. Personally I forgive her and I think it was very big of her to make such an apology.

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