UPDATE: Pastor Preaches Hate From The Pulpit; Permits Violence Toward LGBT Kids PDF Print
Written by Instinct Staff | Tuesday, 01 May 2012
Tags: pastor sean harris, berean baptist church, north carolina, anti-gay, anti-lgbt, lgbt youth, violence against children

Sean Harris

Updated Wednesday, 9:30 a.m. EST

Pastor Harris has non-apologized for his non-Jesus like sermon calling for parents to beat their LGBT kids. Read what Harris has to say in the wake of national criticism, after the jump!

"If I had to say it again, I would say it differently, no doubt," Harris said Tuesday. "Those weren't planned words, but what I do stand by is that the word of God makes it clear that effeminate behavior is ungodly. I'm not going to compromise on that."

Harris went on to tell the Fayetteville Observer that within his church "the response was, 'Pastor, we know you didn't mean that.'"

"We know when you're saying something seriously and when were supposed to just understand the intent and not the application,' "

Hmmm. Harris doesn't sound very sorry for advocating violence against kids to us. How do you feel about his "apology"?

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(Original post)

North Carolina pastor, Sean Harris (Berean Baptist Church), has taken it upon himself to tell parents how to handle their gay children.

We read it. We listened to it. We're pissed about it.

So here’s the transcript, which you should read—or if you want to have nightmares for the rest of your life, you can listen to the audio here. We’d suggest lowering your volume—you know—because of the screaming.

Pastor Sean Harris TRANSCRIPT:

"So your little son starts to act a little girlish when he is four years old and instead of squashing that like a cockroach and saying, “Man up, son, get that dress off you and get outside and dig a ditch, because that is what boys do,” you get out the camera and you start taking pictures of Johnny acting like a female and then you upload it to YouTube and everybody laughs about it and the next thing you know, this dude, this kid is acting out childhood fantasies that should have been squashed.

Can I make it any clearer? Dads, the second you see your son dropping the limp wrist, you walk over there and crack that wrist. Man up. Give him a good punch. Ok? You are not going to act like that. You were made by God to be a male and you are going to be a male.

And when your daughter starts acting to Butch you reign her in. And you say, “Oh, no, sweetheart. You can play sports. Play them to the glory of God. But sometimes you are going to act like a girl and walk like a girl and talk like a girl and smell like a girl and that means you are going to be beautiful. You are going to be attractive. You are going to dress yourself up.”

You say, “Can I take charge like that as a parent?”
Yeah, you can. You are authorized. I just gave you a special dispensation this morning to do that."

So we're trying to figure out what bothers us most about this speech in which an alleged "servant of God" screeches about a parent's "special dispensation" to commit violence against their children if they exhibit supposedly gay characterics.

Is it his advice on how to handle an effeminate son?  “Punch him.” “Crack that wrist.” Both excellent displays of “Christ’s love.”

Or maybe it’s the congregation chiming in with “Amen!,” “Yes!,” and warm chuckles as this asshat stands on the pulpit and tells them to terrorize their children.

What may be most disturbing is the thought of the gay kids that are sitting in that congregation, terrified at the possibility of being outed. Fearing that their parents won’t love them—or if they heed the message from the pulpit—that they might physically harm them. They’re hearing from the church, from a “Man of God,” that there’s something wrong with them.

Crap like this is why gay kids kill themselves. Seriously. And dangerous bigots like this will never be held responsible for it.

 

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written by HadEnough, May 01, 2012
This makes me sick.
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written by M F Breen, May 01, 2012
I pray to the Great Almighty that someone cracks a plank of 4x2 across this asswipes head.
Amen
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written by thegayking, May 01, 2012
Wow that is the biggest line of crap
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written by i.hate.god.and.your.church, May 01, 2012
There is no acceptable context for that "joke"
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written by Chichilarue, May 01, 2012
My dad actually did beat the life out of me when I was kid and acted gay, "You have to like girls" he said, and "I was disciplining you". I don't know how I survived without letting him kill me or killing myself, I just don't know how I went through all the abuse and aftermath and still believed that I could have my husband, home, and family in the end. When I hear this pastor talk, and his congregation laugh, I want to pour all my experiences inside them and let them know what it feels like... it's disgusting. Im sick to my stomach from hearing this audio
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written by Jds, May 01, 2012
Wow I think you need to search for God.. He apparently needs help. What a sicko!!
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written by Phulosophy, May 01, 2012
This pastor is extremely dangerous. We need drown out his hate with messages of love and acceptance. Chichilarue, so sorry to hear what you went through. I am glad you LIVE your life nonetheless. Change is going come.
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written by Will1007, May 02, 2012
@I.love.God.and.my.church I don't know how you can justify what this pastor said. Even if it is a joke, it is NOT funny. There are idiots out there who will actually take what this guy says literally and will beat the shit out of their children. I can't imagine anyone, especially a pastor, saying all that as a joke. From what this man has said, it's obvious that he is a homophobe. Christians DON'T incite violence toward any group of people nor do they joke about it. It's disgusting that you can justify this. I question your Christianity.
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written by Jimcracky, May 02, 2012
At lot of people are justifiably criticizing this pastor. Here's my question - What the hell is wrong with the people in this church? It isn't just him; it's the whole damn church and I do mean damned!!!
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written by yep i am a lesbian,, May 02, 2012
since the preacher mentioned that men were made by God, wouldn't it stand to reason that God made us the way he wanted us to be ."me thinks thou does protest too much" and too loudly. Seems to me, preacher has hidden his gay ways too long,and now he can't seem to push it back any longer and he is trying not to act out his desires.
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written by Mark in Hell-abama, May 02, 2012
People please don't think this is even remotely close to being an isolated incident. I am from northern Alabama and practically EVERY church spews this same garbage while the people in the congregation are having affairs and working on their second and third marriages. Straight people ruined marriage, straight "christian" people, not us gay folks. I was that little boy with a limp wrist and while my parents didn't beat me, their "christian love and guidance" made me believe I had to be someone I wasn't until I was 25 years old. "Men never commit evil so fully and joyfully as when they do it for religious convictions." -Blaise Pascal
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written by DIck Z, May 02, 2012
Pastor Sean Harris is the abomination here. I wonder how many teen-age suicides that he and others like him are responsible for. They should be held accountable
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written by Midwestern farmers daughter, May 03, 2012
Sorry but this is still America and if this is how this pastor wants to lead HIS congregation then he should! If you don't like it...don't go to his church!! We have religious freedom in this country and he and his congregation have every right to believe whatever they wish! If that is their interpretation of the bible.....then leave them alone! I am sure if anyone that day disagreed with him...they would have stood up and walked out!
Do I agree with him...not entirely. He does lead this church in the direction he chooses....mind your own religious beliefs and let them follow theirs. I am not Catholic and do not agree with everything in the Catholic religion SO I don't go to a Catholic church. I go to a church that preaches the beliefs I like to follow! Everyone in this country needs to stop judging others...that is God's job...not ours! Get off your high horse and go to YOUR church and pray for forgiveness for judging others and thinking you have some higher power or higher insight than GOD! What a shame that this is what we have all become! A bunch of judges and haters!
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written by Mikey, May 03, 2012
@ Midwestern Farmers Daughter,

Giving your congregation special permission from himself and god to "beat the gay" out of their children is not religious freedom, it is not freedom of speed... but it is a conspiracy to commit a hate crime, conspiracy to commit murder, it is violence and it is all coming from their spiritual leader. He is enabling them

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