Interesting he never actually answered the question just rambled.. I guess that's what you get for asking a "porn actor" his opinion. I had a conversation with Steve Cruz years ago and as he said people are sexually racist. "You would be shocked at the number of guys that come into my studio and refuse to work with blacks and asians." Sexually i'm attracted to beautiful people. I have preferences but they are often broken. To set a standard and refuse to break it because of 1's skin tone is racist!

So glad that this is being discussed. and so thoughtfully here from the Sexpert. Great response.

I think the simple answer in the very beginning said it all for me. I think it was a great answer. you arent sexist for liking one sex, you arent racist for being attracted to one race. Its attraction, not whether or not you like and treat someone with respect.

A very cogent and generous answer! Thx!!

As a black guy, I would not categorize someone as racist because they don't find me attractive because of my complexion. I find them racist if they have a bunch of negative preconceived notions about me based on what he sees on TV. My own dating history includes other Blacks, Latino's and Asians. There was one Greek guy interested in dating me and I said no. Not because he was Greek/White but because I typically don't like to date feminine guys. For me, race is just a preference.

Now the comment made by Jake, are you serious? That is one man's opinion "yours". To say that one group is outright more attractive than all other groups is just silly and juvenile. The Greek guy that I mentioned earlier would disagree with you. He only dates Black men. Does his opinion count less than yours?

This question defiantly depends if you are white and like only white, or if you are black or only like white guys or vice versa.

P.S.-He is so hot in a cap!

I think if you prefer one race to another then it is my opinion that your foundation for that choice is based on your preconceptions of that race and you’re race. When White men don't find black men attractive it’s because of all that old ideas inherited from their family and society, subconscious or conscience (black folk are dirty; they stink, are lazy, less moral fibers etc.). The same is for those who love black folks (they are exotic, big dicks, animalistic in bed).
I found that black men who seek only white men do so because they have low self- esteem aka self-hatred, they hate that their skin is dark not pretty from society’s point of view. The biggest being White is Right or Better. I hear that from Latino & Asians also. If you are wondering why you only like a certain race, ask yourself why? Is it because of how you view yourself or that race? Are you looking to get back at your parents? Do you want to prove to yourself and the world that you’re not racist?
I personally like men regardless of race but I find that I shy away from white men because of their preconceived notions about black men. I don’t like to be objectified, it’s just not sexy. And I don’t like being called chocolate.