This is why I seldom do online hook-ups, and when I do, I chat with the person for awhile before we meet. I'm the type of guy that does the "back and forth" emails that some guys loathe. It's not a fail-safe plan, but it's a hell of a lot better than the quick, "Ooo, you're hot! Wanna fuck?...Good. Come over" or "Ooo, you're hot! Wanna fuck?...Good. I'm on my way." For this way I have some idea of who I'm letting into my home, or whose home I'm going to.
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