I am a bartender. I don't wear makeup, I have long, undyed, grey-streaked "Morticia of the Addams family" hair, and I am constantly being asked if I am either (a) gay or (b) a Pentecostal because I do not wear makeup or the fashionable short, dyed haircut expected of women my age (I am an old hippie and I still look good, I just don't wear dye or makeup). Yes, because lesbians never wear makeup or dye their hair and also because Pentecostals just love to tend bar! One thing I am glad that I am able to do in my business is have the bouncers boot out haters. If your management had any chutzpah they could do the same. You did well not to stoop to her level.
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