i disagree with blaming the parents for the homophobic mother's attitudes. children can be raised a certain way, but they have the ability to exercise free choice as an adult. children choose not to listen to their parents all the time. especially when it's when it something the child wants. have to stop blaming other people(the "grandparents")
at least the homophobic mother has the strength in her beliefs to allow those who disagree with her position to approach her . at least she doesn't try to hide behind the shield of anonymity.
i still think she is dead wrong.
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