1. Gay being feminine is a stereotype, an unfair generalization of a diverse group.
2. Saying someone who enjoys being effeminate as lesser than you is sexist. Other people's likes an dislikes aren't hurting you.
3. The only thing you're right about here is that using labels like gay are a personal decision. Not for other people to give to you.
Stop being so negative, we're all just trying to enjoy existing on this planet.
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