Grindr is for gay men. If you use it, you are gay. Plain and simple. He is gay. He did not accidentally upload his shirtless picture onto Grindr with the notations soliciting sex from other users (all of which are also men). Not all gay men do Grindr, but all those who do Grindr are gay. So what you are saying is that if I don't 'act gay' I can dig other males and 'not be gay'. Sounds good to me. So I'm not gay.
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