You are only regurgitating what you've heard by other people in your community.
You'll find that those same exact arguments have been used for hundreds of years by religious folks scared of progress. Ideas promoted by leaders because it means that religion has less of an absolute hold on the minds of their followers.
What about when we started "tolerating" Irish and Protestants getting married? Blacks or whites? You're on the wrong side of history sadly. But there's really nothing anyone can do to stop your disability of having difficulty reasoning/questioning. It's not your fault directly, but things can start to change with people like you when they wake from the deception they've been forced into all their lives.
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