First off, your need to identify as "Ungay" says a lot about your own insecurities with your sexual orientation. Who cares?
Second, you obviously have NO idea about the STARK difference between sexual orientation and gender expression. Is masculine expression exclusive to those born with male genitalia?
You, along with the "Gay Christian" creator of this video have a lot of inward evaluation and learning to do. Google search: Queer Theory. Maybe that will help.
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