Leading Men 2009: Dan Choi & Victor Fehrenbach PDF Print
Sunday, 08 November 2009

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Cover Guys Dan Choi & Victor Fehrenbach take center stage and represent our 20 Leading Men of 2009 honorees.

Lieutenant Dan Choi: The Unconventional Activist

I first met Lieutenant Dan Choi in a crowded bar in Chelsea. It was Democratic primary night in New York City, and he was on hand to help celebrate Councilwoman Christine Quinn’s victory. Dan had spent the earlier part of his day on city street corners, passing out literature for Quinn’s campaign, and I asked him why he had spent his time helping the speaker of the New York City Council—a post that has no bearing on gays in the military. “Christine Quinn lobbied Governor Paterson to keep me in the National Guard, so I think we should reward her and reward the governor,” he told me. But neither help from Albany nor a stop-loss order from the White House materialized, and Dan’s separation from the military marched on.

Most know the basics of Dan’s story: A West Point graduate with a degree in Arabic who served an extended tour in Iraq from 2006-2007, Dan spent 10 years in the military before he was discharged. But Dan is trying to be more than Mr. Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell. He envisions gay rights activism—and he takes pains to note that being labeled an “activist” is something he’s only recently become comfortable with—as an “in-the-streets, egalitarian affair. Out of the cocktail parties and knocking on anti-gay congressmen’s doors!” he asserts.

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Lieutenant Colonel Victor Fehrenbach: The Proud Pilot

Lieutenant Colonel Victor Fehrenbach is still a member of the United States Air Force, and he would like things to stay that way. But after 18 years of service as a decorated pilot (he’s won nine Air Medals, including one for heroism), Victor’s future in the military is uncertain at best.

In May 2009, Victor faced a dilemma. He was being kicked out of the military for admitting to civilian investigators a year earlier that he had had sex with a man. At first he decided to go along with the discharge, but then he had a change of heart. “The military was taking everything away from me, but the one thing I realized they couldn’t take from me is my sense of right and wrong,” he says. So he decided not only to fight the discharge but to go public with his case on The Rachel Maddow Show. With the exception of the few officers handling his case, no one else on his base knew he was being separated from the military for being gay until he was on MSNBC. Chuckling, he says, “It certainly created quite a stir.”

A “stir” might be an understatement. At 40, Victor has become one of the most visible faces of the “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” policy, while still fighting to retain his career and pension—courage and conviction that make a leading man.

For more on Victor and Dan, and the stories behind this year's Leading Men (including all 20 honorees) be sure to pick up the November 2009 issue of Instinct Magazine.

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eatkinson
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written by eatkinson, October 14, 2009
Fabulous! I'm really looking forward to reading the article about these two community leaders. They're hotttt!!
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written by Sita001, October 16, 2009
I am more than glad these men are putting their faces and their service to the cause. My partner was discharged under DADT in 98 and the shame is that to this day he wishes he could rejoin the Navy (he was a Corpsman). The (codified) policy wasn't in place when I was leaving high school but the persecution I would have faced is the one and only reason I did not enlist. I would have been the 3rd generation in my family to do so.
The courage not just to serve but also in war times is outstanding in each and every American. These two have put a face on the fact that we queer Americans love our country as much as any other and are fighting to remain in the armed forces.
Heroes already, they are double that for us.
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written by NDM810, October 20, 2009
I can't wait until the November issue. This article is going to be a keeper for years to come. They're devotion, loyalty and honor to the military. BZ (Bravo Zulu) to both of them and I salute them!Whew...damn they're sexy and hooooot especially if they were in their uniforms, too. Someone better be satisfying them because they are too damn cute to be single.... smilies/wink.gif
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written by Logan, November 03, 2009
Two great men. I am so proud of the advocacy both of you are doing.

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