Former Dallas Cowboy Is Concerned Over Michael Sam Patting Players On The Butt
Nigel Campbell | February 22, 2014
Apparently it's a big concern for some players--even those that are retired and won't be anywhere near Sam are clutching their pearls over what it will mean if Sam glances in their direction or pats a player on the butt on the field. (And Heaven forbid somebody drop the soap in his presence.)
Retired former Dallas Cowboy Greg Ellis tells ESPN that he, personally, would have been uncomfortable with an openly gay teammate.
“I would. I would. People who’ve never been in an NFL shower room, not just locker room, it’s a open room. We don’t have private curtains. It’s just an open-form shower, so everybody sees each in the nude. Well if you’re looking at men as if you’re looking at women or vice versa, how are those guys to receive that? I don’t know. I don’t know how they will receive that. But I do know it would be a situation where I would go to the coach and try to work something out to say, ‘Obviously this is going to be a problem. What can we do? The kid can help us play, can help us win football games. We need him on the team. But this situation right here, we need to do something.’"
We doubt Michael Sam is planning to look at any of his teammates in the way "you look at women" and we think he'll be able to keep his inner "lustful cockmonster" in check.
As for what Sam has to do to be welcomed by his potential team, Ellis has this advice:
“If he can make it through that first initial wave. If he can get out there — he doesn’t need to say anything. He needs go in there, close his mouth and play football to let the guys know that, ‘Hey if you guys give me a chance to welcome me into this fraternity of this football team, I can contribute and help us win football games.’ That’s going to be his best approach in my opinion."
But then Ellis makes it weird(er)...
"Because the little things you have to look at. If he pats somebody on the butt — I hope ESPN don’t get mad and never have me back — but if he pats somebody on the butt, how is that to be received? If he does that how is that to be received? If he said, ‘Come on baby’? I called guys baby all the time on the football field, but when you have taken a stand and went and go public and say that, ‘I am gay,’ how is that going to be received? I’ve seen guys, I had guys on the Dallas Cowboys football team — I won’t mention names — who did not want you to pat them on their butt. So God forbid if you pat one of those guys on the butt it’s going to be a major problem.”
At this point, Ellis's primary bone of contention (besides Sam being gay, in general) is that Sam chose to come out before he came into the NFL and established himself as a player that could contribute to the team.
"I don’t care how we look at this, it’s going to affect the football team. And one of the biggest reasons why it’s going to affect the football team, he’s not a proven player. Teams and guys have a lot of tendency to accept a lot of things if they feel like, ‘Nobody done like him, but nobody can do what he can do.’ If it’s your quarterback and he’s playing like Peyton Manning you’re going to have find a way to say, ‘We’re going to overlook that because we’re trying to win football games.’ But when you’re coming in as an unproven rookie, you won’t have that card to pull because you’re unproven. He has to be careful. He has to come in, close his mouth. It should’ve never came out. I know half the people will say, ‘Why not?’ Because it hurts his opportunity to be welcome into a football club.”
We're pretty sure it only hurts his opportunity to be welcomed by ignorant players. We think they'll figure out how to deal and Michael Sam will prove himself.
What's your take, Instincters?