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Man Comes Out to Family, Is Cursed, Beaten & Thrown Out--All on Video

 Twenty-year-old Daniel was raised in a hyper religious household, so he had to know coming out to his ultra-conservative family would not go smoothly. But he probably didn't know it was going to go this badly. He was cursed, beaten, and thrown out.

And it's all recorded for you to watch.

User rythymknight posted a video on Reddit of the incident. You can scroll down and watch the whole ugly hurtful thing--but you might want to know what you're getting into.

Daniel's mother can be heard saying, "You have made a choice, independent of what you've told your daddy...You can deny it all you want to but I believe in the word of God. And God creates nobody that way, it is a path that you have chosen.

Daniel says he can't change his sexuality, citing scientific proof and basic biology, but she won't have it.  "Since you have chosen that path, we will not support you any longer. You will need to move out and find wherever you can to live and do you want to. I will not let people believe I condone what you do." ('Cause it's all about you, mom, right?)

Then things get really hateful. An argument starts with a voice yelling at Daniel, "Let me tell you something you piece of shit!" Daniel is hit and shouts of "damned queer" are heard.

At that point rythymknight says he was forced to leave. "It's been a really traumatic experience for [my boyfriend], and I feel so terrible and angry that this happened," he said. "Fortunately, he's living with a friend for now. Seems like he can be there long-term until he's able to support himself."






Really horrible to see so many people going through hard times. Glad he is getting all the support he needs.

"I Dream Of A Gay-Free Society"......A poem

Dear Lord, I dream and pray each day for a gay free society.

Men would be with women and all women with men, they way you intended, the way it should be.

Sometimes I think the world is truly coming apart at the seams.

Sexual deviants of all types are becoming the norm...from angry heteros all you can hear are agony and screams!

Why?  Because we KNOW that the Lord will refuse to take much more of this madness.

I dream of a day when he comes to take away all of our sorry and sadness.

The gay creatures have really become quite the scourge.

We must destroy them all, this world we truly must purge.

The comments here by the destroyer are disturbing, but are so typical of the righteous bigots. And destroyer is an appropriate name since this person's attitude truly does destroy not only lives of those that fall prey to them, but also destroys their own humanity, of which I believe they have very little left. Take note Mr or Mrs destroyer, your horrible rant against love, acceptance, and God's command against judgement of others is losing ground in an increasingly humane America. This country is not founded on Christianity or any other religion, but on acceptance of those different from us. I know you will just keep spewing your poison, but I will celebrate the day you and your kind are judged by your own God. I will not laugh or celebrate your god condemning you to your own hell, I will mourn your inability to celebrate during your own miserable life on this earth, and the waste of a soul that could only hate, fear, and denigrate those that only want to have a chance to love and live in peace.

I hate people who are homophobic!

10 Reasons Why Homosexual “Marriage” is Harmful and Must be Opposed

1. It Is Not Marriage

Calling something marriage does not make it marriage. Marriage has always been a covenant between a man and a woman which is by its nature ordered toward the procreation and education of children and the unity and wellbeing of the spouses.

The promoters of same-sex “marriage” propose something entirely different. They propose the union between two men or two women. This denies the self-evident biological, physiological, and psychological differences between men and women which find their complementarity in marriage. It also denies the specific primary purpose of marriage: the perpetuation of the human race and the raising of children.

Two entirely different things cannot be considered the same thing.

Click "like" for TRUE marriage!

2. It Violates Natural Law

Marriage is not just any relationship between human beings. It is a relationship rooted in human nature and thus governed by natural law.

Natural law’s most elementary precept is that “good is to be done and pursued, and evil is to be avoided.” By his natural reason, man can perceive what is morally good or bad for him. Thus, he can know the end or purpose of each of his acts and how it is morally wrong to transform the means that help him accomplish an act into the act’s purpose.

Any situation which institutionalizes the circumvention of the purpose of the sexual act violates natural law and the objective norm of morality.

Being rooted in human nature, natural law is universal and immutable. It applies to the entire human race, equally. It commands and forbids consistently, everywhere and always. Saint Paul taught in the Epistle to the Romans that the natural law is inscribed on the heart of every man. (Rom. 2:14-15)

3. It Always Denies a Child Either a Father or a Mother

It is in the child’s best interests that he be raised under the influence of his natural father and mother. This rule is confirmed by the evident difficulties faced by the many children who are orphans or are raised by a single parent, a relative, or a foster parent.

The unfortunate situation of these children will be the norm for all children of a same-sex “marriage.” A child of a same-sex “marriage” will always be deprived of either his natural mother or father. He will necessarily be raised by one party who has no blood relationship with him. He will always be deprived of either a mother or a father role model.

Same-sex “marriage” ignores a child’s best interests.

4. It Validates and Promotes the Homosexual Lifestyle

In the name of the “family,” same-sex “marriage” serves to validate not only such unions but the whole homosexual lifestyle in all its bisexual and transgender variants.

Civil laws are structuring principles of man's life in society. As such, they play a very important and sometimes decisive role in influencing patterns of thought and behavior. They externally shape the life of society, but also profoundly modify everyone’s perception and evaluation of forms of behavior.

Legal recognition of same-sex “marriage” would necessarily obscure certain basic moral values, devalue traditional marriage, and weaken public morality.

5. It Turns a Moral Wrong into a Civil Right

Homosexual activists argue that same-sex “marriage” is a civil rights issue similar to the struggle for racial equality in the 1960s.

This is false.

First of all, sexual behavior and race are essentially different realities. A man and a woman wanting to marry may be different in their characteristics: one may be black, the other white; one rich, the other poor; or one tall, the other short. None of these differences are insurmountable obstacles to marriage. The two individuals are still man and woman, and thus the requirements of nature are respected.

Same-sex “marriage” opposes nature. Two individuals of the same sex, regardless of their race, wealth, stature, erudition or fame, will never be able to marry because of an insurmountable biological impossibility.

Secondly, inherited and unchangeable racial traits cannot be compared with non-genetic and changeable behavior. There is simply no analogy between the interracial marriage of a man and a woman and the “marriage” between two individuals of the same sex.

6. It Does Not Create a Family but a Naturally Sterile Union

Traditional marriage is usually so fecund that those who would frustrate its end must do violence to nature to prevent the birth of children by using contraception. It naturally tends to create families.

On the contrary, same-sex “marriage” is intrinsically sterile. If the “spouses” want a child, they must circumvent nature by costly and artificial means or employ surrogates. The natural tendency of such a union is not to create families.
Therefore, we cannot call a same-sex union marriage and give it the benefits of true marriage.

7. It Defeats the State’s Purpose of Benefiting Marriage

One of the main reasons why the State bestows numerous benefits on marriage is that by its very nature and design, marriage provides the normal conditions for a stable, affectionate, and moral atmosphere that is beneficial to the upbringing of children—all fruit of the mutual affection of the parents. This aids in perpetuating the nation and strengthening society, an evident interest of the State.

Homosexual “marriage” does not provide such conditions. Its primary purpose, objectively speaking, is the personal gratification of two individuals whose union is sterile by nature. It is not entitled, therefore, to the protection the State extends to true marriage.

8. It Imposes Its Acceptance on All Society

By legalizing same-sex “marriage,” the State becomes its official and active promoter. The State calls on public officials to officiate at the new civil ceremony, orders public schools to teach its acceptability to children, and punishes any state employee who expresses disapproval.

In the private sphere, objecting parents will see their children exposed more than ever to this new “morality,” businesses offering wedding services will be forced to provide them for same-sex unions, and rental property owners will have to agree to accept same-sex couples as tenants.

In every situation where marriage affects society, the State will expect Christians and all people of good will to betray their consciences by condoning, through silence or act, an attack on the natural order and Christian morality.

9. It Is the Cutting Edge of the Sexual Revolution

In the 1960s, society was pressured to accept all kinds of immoral sexual relationships between men and women. Today we are seeing a new sexual revolution where society is being asked to accept sodomy and same-sex “marriage.”

If homosexual “marriage” is universally accepted as the present step in sexual “freedom,” what logical arguments can be used to stop the next steps of incest, pedophilia, bestiality, and other forms of unnatural behavior? Indeed, radical elements of certain “avant garde” subcultures are already advocating such aberrations.

The railroading of same-sex “marriage” on the American people makes increasingly clear what homosexual activist Paul Varnell wrote in the Chicago Free Press:

"The gay movement, whether we acknowledge it or not, is not a civil rights movement, not even a sexual liberation movement, but a moral revolution aimed at changing people's view of homosexuality."

10. It Offends God

This is the most important reason. Whenever one violates the natural moral order established by God, one sins and offends God. Same-sex “marriage” does just this. Accordingly, anyone who professes to love God must be opposed to it.

Marriage is not the creature of any State. Rather, it was established by God in Paradise for our first parents, Adam and Eve. As we read in the Book of Genesis: “God created man in His image; in the Divine image he created him; male and female He created them. God blessed them, saying: ‘Be fertile and multiply; fill the earth and subdue it.’” (Gen. 1:28-29)

The same was taught by Our Savior Jesus Christ: “From the beginning of the creation, God made them male and female. For this cause a man shall leave his father and mother; and shall cleave to his wife.” (Mark 10:6-7).

Genesis also teaches how God punished Sodom and Gomorrah for the sin of homosexuality: “The Lord rained down sulphurous fire upon Sodom and Gomorrah. He overthrew those cities and the whole Plain, together with the inhabitants of the cities and the produce of the soil.” (Gen. 19:24-25)

All you are "the destroyer" is jealous o f people that are open minded an happy.

This video and story makes me SO happy!

Let THIS serve to be an "in your face" lesson to ALL undercover fags who have yet to come out of the closet!

You are despised and hated by a majority of society...Ask The Lord to make you repel this faggot maggotry from your soul.  Ask for forgiveness and the wisdom to find true love with a WOMAN!

I'm getting ready to watch the video again!  Good times!!

Hey Destroyer. Is your mom alive? If so, I hope someone rapes the bitch, drags her to the woods, dismembers her body, and feed her fucking scraps to the fucking raccoons you no good piece of shit!!


I LAUGH at the putrid gay outcast! 

Heteros RULE the Earth.....There will come a day when we crush you ALL beneath our thumbs!

For those few who DO escape our wrath, Hell awaits thee!

I think you're laughing because you secretly want your dick sucked by a queer while your mom and son look on. Prolly fucked them both in private anyway. You're prolly some redneck backwoods fucker who fucks all his family. You wanna talk about God, but God teaches not to judge and here you are a "STRAIGHT" man on a GAY MAGAZINE WEBSITE!!! So why the fuck are you here? I hope you die of cancer, AIDS, or a fucking aneruysm to the brain fucking jackass!!

You're not helping with the homophobic slur

You're not helping with the homophobic slur




Just one word sums you up... moron

I hope God exists and if gays go to hell by default you are fucked when you die because you'll be spending eternity with them

Yes, God does exist foolish non-believer.

He abhors sexual deviants like you and unless you repent and become hetero, you will be dealt with severely.

In case you don't, I'd suggest packing light...bring plenty of sunscreen and some'll be HOT where you're going :)


I think you need help with your mental health issues

Nope....I'm good to go, Mr. Graham Cracker :)

Gayness, on the other hand, is a scientifically confirmed psychological illness.  

I will continue to pray away the gay for all of you sick individuals afflicted with this "sexual deviant disease".

Lord, please hear my prayers!

It is actually interesting to note that while this individual is so homophobic here his is on an "gay" website.

Tells me that he either is dealing with some "internal" gay issues or he is so pathetic that he cannot find anything better to do with his time.

Actually, I am on a mission from God to convert the demon dog homos to normal God fearing Heteros. 

No "internal" issues at all...Dick + pussy = paradise = The way God intended!

Pray Away The Gay and purge yourself of the disgusting homo thoughts....You'll be GLAD you did!!

Mr. Destroyer,

I am not here to fight you or cast you down. I would like to ask you a question. To start, I would like you to know that I am a heterosexual, Christian woman. I love God with all my heart and believe as you that he is very real.

I do not want to judge you, but ask honestly how you can say such terrible evil things to people. People that you don't know from Adam. People that are living in the same world as you. Your neighbors on earth. We are all gods children. The word of God has much to say about how we treat others in this life:

Leviticus 19:18 - You shall not take vengeance or bear a grudge against the sons of your own people, but you shall love your neighbor as yourself: I am the Lord.

God wants us to be all loving. He wants us to understand that regardless of the life anyone lives, by "choice" or not, we are all in sin, and that our sins are forgiven. In fact, God himself is the only one who may judge and define those of our actions that are in sin. We as humans, made of flesh are not permitted to place judgment on others:

Romans 2:1 - Therefore you have no excuse, O man, every one of you who judges. For in passing judgment on another you condemn yourself, because you, the judge, practice the very same things.

...Nor are we permitted to say what is sin, and what is not. We have our own flaws to worry about, what gives us the right to bother with anyones else's? Nowhere does it say in the word that homosexuality is a flaw or sin, so who are we to cast it down as such? We are judged as harshly as we judge others:

Matthew 7:1-5 - Judge not, that you be not judged. For with the judgment you pronounce you will be judged, and with the measure you use it will be measured to you. Why do you see the speck that is in your brother's eye, but do not notice the log that is in your own eye? Or how can you say to your brother, ‘Let me take the speck out of your eye,’ when there is the log in your own eye? You hypocrite, first take the log out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to take the speck out of your brother's eye.

...You see Mr. "Destroyer", the bible, the very word of God that you are claiming to represent, is speaking out against these awful things you are saying, plainly. Your stones, your judgments, your blatant hate that is being cast by your own flesh is the exact opposite of what God wants from any of his people. I am not here to judge you or condemn you to hell, but your actions, as well as the given name you have chosen to represent you on this forum is a direct representative of the devil himself.

The lord preaches love unto all. Love is patient, love is kind. I am sorry to say sir, that you are representing neither.

So, my question to you is...

How can you call yourself a man of God, when God himself would never condone this of man?

I hope you and the lord have a good long chat about this one. May he have mercy on your soul.

Peacefully and respectfully,

Amanda Lynn


and you've been watching too much of Yul Brynner in The Ten Commandments 

You come across like a religious extremist which is quite disturbing. You need to get a grip on the real world. Gayness is certainly not a scientifically proven illness and you merely want to believe it is to support your very twisted religious ideology.

I wonder how many times these people have been married. The Father and the Stepmother. You are not going to Heaven if you lied to God til death do you part. The elevator is on the down position

When you win the lottery guess who will be knocking on your door. I would have filed a domestic suit against the mother and father. I don't care who you are. Physical and mental abuse is not healthy.

The outpouring of support from around the world for this guy has been phenomenal. His Mom just may need him one day.

I don't want this to sound like a testimonial but here 89 year old Mom couldn't afford the "home" she was in anymore and asked my partner and I to take her in. My two brothers didn't want her. They're both straight and couldn't make room for her. We accepted her with no open arms and she couldn't be happier now. 

Now my partner's  Mom needs physical assistance and she refuses to go to a "home". We're looking for a larger house to accommodate our family of four. Again the other two siblings refuse to help. 

Ironically the gay sons are the ones who came to their rescue in their time of dire need. We're happy that we are able to do it. 

They were pretty calm till that dad started screaming, then I got too scared to watch the rest . They didn't get mental until the son started saying that the father has never been there for him. I think with families like these you can't expect them to accept you right away. There needs to be discussion, support(for the son), and the acceptance will gradually set. Belief is very hard, sometimes impossible, to change. It's not a one way street, there are both sides to this and not just the gay sons side. I guess it depends on how important family is to you or if you'd be happier putting them in your past. I think it is the churches fault for not teaching their members how to worship god with an open mind and heart. If this is how people think because of their faith then their faith, or spiritual leaders have cheated and failed them.

Daniel, you didn't choose to be gay, and you didn't choose your family. But now, you have the opportunity to choose your family the healthy way. I waited until I was 42 to come out, and I missed so much. Now I am happier than ever, with quality family of choice. My parents are dead, and four of my five brothers and sisters told me I am going to hell. Well, I am in heaven now, and they are living in their own hell. Be brave, the country is changing, and you have an even larger family supporting you now.

I sounds like he was born into Westboro Baptist.   Who was the old cackle voiced witch doing all the shouting?   I'm guessing an aunt or grandmother.   I hope she goes to be with Jesus REAL soon.  She'll be happy, we won't have to deal with monsters like that, a win win for all.

So when did she choose to be straight?

Good to hear he is out of that house. That's all that matters right now. The next most important thing is for this man to not have any communication with those relatives for many years. I hope he is fortunate enough to move so far away that it will be almost impossible to hear about anything his relatives do.

Unfortunately this is what some parents are like when hearing about their childs sexual preferences, I was fortunate enough to have a loving family who accepting me for who I am, if that piece of shit who calls herself a mother really did know he was gay from when he was a baby and is religious then she should believe that God creates people with a unique design, and in the words of Lady Gaga; don't hide yourself in regret, just love yourself and your set, I'm on the right track baby I was born this way. Be proud of who you are and fuck everyone else, family or not.

You probably may want to use another word rather than "preference", because that also can equate to "choice".

Help Daniel get back on his feet:


I'm sooo sorry, Daniel. Many of us have had similar experiences with family who refuse to accept the truth. They seem more concerned with what others will "think" than with your own well being. Just maybe one day they'll understand that they were wrong. You deserve a good life, Daniel. Go for it and be proud of the man you are.

Family always fights especially in situations like this. It's normal there family everything will be alright in the end.


You can tell from this family's accent that they are peasants or hillbillies.  They don't believe in science and it is useless to try to teach them.  Damn backward Southerners.

No he should have bowed down with them and prayed.  His prayer should have been please lord, don't judge them like they judge me.   Please lord don't deny them a home in heaven like they are denying me here.   Please lord, don't judge them harshly for this.   

That would turn the religious table on them


He should have moved outta there way before this happened.  Ignorant people will never believe, accept, or try to accept anything that they don't understand. Even if it's their own child.  Amen

Fucking Nuts!! What are wrong with these abusive, ignorant people???

It's no wonder the suicide rate is up among gay youth when their own parents are treating them in such a horrible way!

Ignorance is fear god never s aid it was
Wrong we all are the same gay is not who you are how you treat people is


I hope that Daniel finds peace and forgets what they class themselves as family.  However. They have to get old and will need  him one day. He should when the time comes put em in a hellhole of a geriatric home he can find and watch them rot. I sure would.  Again this religion crap comes Into it yet again.  We all bleed the same colour  when we are cut. Why religion has to come into it I will never know. Turning on your own flesh and blood is awful and discussing.  A choice. Can't believe where these assholes get that sort of mentality from.  Anyway I wish him all the luck in the world 

I had a very good friend commit suicide after coming out to his parents, but not before his father beat him up with a bat.  This ignorance and hate comes from one thing, and that is religion.  This kids parents should be ashamed of themselves... 

My best friend did the same but didn't "come out" to us until the end. We loved him and would have supported him no matter what. I now have a teenage daughter who is in the process of "coming out" to all of us and I couldn't be happier for her :) Something I have noticed here in Australia is that we don't seem to have the pure hate that is associated to gay boys and girls as you do in the states.

What utterly vile people, they don't deserve to be parents. Hopefully he gets the hell away from those morons and lets them smother in their own shit! Hateful cretins!

people like this deserve to die, scum of the earth 

Its the south. Im not shocked at all.

OMG!!! – such god–damned, religious–fanatic, ignorant, bigoted, hateful and dispicable pieces of fucking shit!!!!!

I appreciate Daniel's desire and need to be himself and not live a lie with his parents.  This is the utmost truth that he can espouse in his life and is truly living a "Christian life" more truthfully than some others in the room at the time of his recording.   I simply question the "line in the sand" that he created with his words.  Bridges were burned that may not be able to be repaired.  That may have been Daniel's plan all along and, if so, it seems he was quite successful.  I hope the best for this young man and I hope that his family will both find forgiveness from God and find a way to honor Daniel's decision to live his live truthfully.

"i've known you were gay since you were a toddler?" and "it's a choice that you made" would seem to be a slight contradiction, no?

I thought the same thing. It just validates her ignorance.

Heartbreaking - I hope that this poor boy, manages to leave these degenerate family members way behind, I hope he finds his way in the world and is a success.  And I hope that their God judges that family harshly for their actions in relation to this.

This is some fucking devastating shit. 

I would have smacked the shit out of all of them. Inhumane cunts. 

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