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Mother Stiffs Gay Server On $100 Check: 'I Do Not Agree With Your Lifestyle'

Well isn't this a gem? Apparently a New Jersey mom with two kids at a Gallop Asian Bistro had no problem shoveling $100 worth of food into her family's mouths, but she had a big problem with tipping her androgynous lesbian waitress. 

Dayna Morales, a former U.S. Marine posted this on the "Have A Gay Day" Facebook page:

Dayna writes: 

I'm a server at Gallop Asian Bistro in Bridgewater, NJ and THIS is what happened to me today.....

The note says "sorry I cannot tip because I do not agree with your lifestyle & the way you live your life" 

NEVER in a million years did I think this would happen. Not only was it a family with two kids, but as I introduce myself and tell them my name is Dayna - the mom proceeds to look at me and say "oh I thought you were gonna say your name is Dan. You sure surprised us!"

I am THOROUGHLY offended mad pissed off and hurt that THIS is what her kids will grow up learning and that I served in the Marines to keep ignorant people like them free. Sorry lady but I don't agree with YOUR lifestyle and the way you're raising your kids but you didn't see me throwing that in your face and giving you shitty service. Keep your damn mouth shut and pray we never cross paths again.

Dayna M.

How classy of this mom to explain her reasons behind stiffing the server who just spent time on her feet putting food on your table. 

Dayna later told her Facebook supporters (and there are many): 

Thanks everyone for your support - it took very fiber of my being not to spit in their food and say something. (Not gonna lie if kids weren't there it would of been a totally different story)


How would you have reacted, Instincters?


(H/T: Gaily Grind)


Ingrate. She would be wise to never go back there again or a she might get the special sauce mixed in.

Secondly, more evidence that anti-gay trash demand we be their slaves.

"we reserve the right to refuse service to anyone" .... never let her back in.

Oh do let her back in and while she is waiting for that meal prepared especially for her, it would be the perfect opportunity to teach her not only manners, but also what Jeasus had to say about judging others. Then after you have done that and have photographed this encounter, a photo that can they be circulated to every LGBTQ server in the country to ensure she ALWAYS gets the kind of service she is entitled to.

I don't understand why she thought you were called Dan? Ignorant people are everywhere. Do NOT let her stupidity drag you down to her level. I am sad that you were hurt by this POS. Be strong and rise above it. It grieves me that people are so piggish.

I celebrate your class and inner-beauty, Waiter Extrodinaire!

Interesting.. She allowed a gay person to serve her, touch her food, glasses, silverware... but no tip. I think it has nothing to do with being gay but rather the customer being a cheap skate ...

Totally! Using that as an excuse for her to be cheap. What an embarrassment!

Well done keep your head up you got nothing to be ashamed off not only a brave woman but a respectable one pity this so call woman dint have half the manners that you did xx


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