David Beckham Sent Ryan Reynolds As Loving Comment On Instagram

Internet users and fans of celebrities love it when social media allows us to see the fun, funny, and human sides of our favorite stars.

Last year, David Beckham teamed up with Ryan Reynolds to make a hilarious short for the Deadpool 2 Film. The two had great fun making the clip and it looks like they formed a bromance that day.

That bromance is now popping up on Instagram thanks to a post by Beckham himself.

On September 19, Ryan Reynolds posted about the filming of a future project of his. Then in the comments of the post Beckham popped in to give his bud a loving compliment.

“God you are handsome,” Beckham said.

The bromance doesn’t stop at just online comments and video though, as it continued in tv show interviews as well.

The two shared time together while on the Graham Norton Show back in May. The two enjoyed time talking about their Deadpool shoot and Beckham’s kids.

We’ve got to say, this has brought up the idea of a bromance film between Beckham and Reynolds into our heads. If Beckham ever wants to work more as an actor, that’s one film we’d definitely go see.

Key To Making Good Gay Friends? Just Give It Time.

Do you make friends easily?  Some of us seem to have the gene that allows us to talk to anyone, any where, and any time and that’s great, but does that help make a friend?  Will you meet those chatters again and again and become really good acquaintances and then friends or besties for life?

When I moved to Florida, I made some quick friends that were friends of other friends.  Some lasted, while others, it took me a little longer to realize they were not the right fit as friends and some, not even acquaintances.

A recent post in The Journal of Social and Personal Relationship by Jeffrey Hall elaborated on something we all know, there are layers of friendships – acquaintances, casual friends, friends and good friends.  But one new aspect I never thought of was that there are limits to the number of people that we can accommodate in any one layer.

Get my abacus out!  The study shares some numbers I need to think about!

5 – We are closest to no more than five people
15 – We have only fifteen people as good friends
50 – Then there’s everyone else that deserves a “friend” label.
150 – Apparently our brain is limited to this number for meaningful relationships.

Well if you like 5s, then you’ve won! 

Besides defining the layers of friendships, Hall also mentions the variable of time in regard to the friend-making process.

Hall set out to quantify the requirements of friendship in two separate studies. The first included 355 adults who had relocated to a new place within the previous six months. Hall asked them to identify someone new they had met. It couldn’t be a family member, romantic interest, or someone they’d known previously. The participants specified where they met this person, how much time they’d spent together the previous week and how much time they spent together in a typical week. They also categorized the person somewhere on the scale from acquaintance to best friend.

In the second study, Hall recruited 112 brand new University of Kansas freshmen and asked them to name two new acquaintances. Then he followed up twice over the first nine weeks of the school year to measure time spent with those new acquaintances and see how the relationships had changed. - The Journal of Social and Personal Relationship

The more time you spend with someone leads to differing levels of friendship. This could be a DUH! moment for many of us, but then again, it may be important to reflect on these numbers. 

Hall found that it took about 50 hours of interaction to move from acquaintance to casual friend, about 90 hours to move from casual friend to friend, and more than 200 hours to qualify as a best friend.

Of course, this does not mean that if you spend all this time with someone, you will become besties just because the clock says so.  Some people we are just stuck with, may it be a coworker or a roommate and lord knows, there are many coworkers we will never move into any of the layers of friendships.

Why do we care about these results? I think they are rather interesting and lead to reflection.

After I moved to Florida, I was looking to make new friends. Yes, I already knew it takes time to do so. We all do have that one friend that was ‘best-friends at first exchange.” Those may have happened and I may be at my 5 limit already, but I was looking to increase my good friends number up to 15 to match Hall’s projection.

I was getting close to moving some people from the acquaintance realm to the 15 good friends category, but then I hung out with them a little longer, had some exchanges on Facebook and … delete.  What is peculiar is that it was about the 50 hour mark over a year’s amount of time, if I had to add it all up. 

Losing those friend, not just keeping them at the acquaintance level, but dropping them out of the 150 members club completely was a little upsetting. I knew that they would never come back in.  I burned that bridge, but they and their issues helped make that separation permanent.  It was upsetting because, yes, it does take that much time vetting someone, but in the end, time spent helps to lessen issues in the future.


Okay Instincters ...

Do you agree with Hall’s findings?  Do you have your 5 / 15 / 50 / 150?

Is it harder to make good gay friends? 

Looking at your friendships and all of their levels, are fellow LGBTQ+ers a majority or minority of that magical 150?

Do you personally have peeps from the L, the G, the B, the T, the Q, the + as your friends? Or are they all from one letter?

Openly Gay Baseball Executive Billy Bean Befriended Formerly Homophobic Player Daniel Murphy

Billy Bean has done a great service for Major League Baseball.

Former player Billy Bean has since stepped up in sharing the news that he's befriended a man who formerly "disagreed with his sexuality.

After retiring his cap as a professional player, Bean became an exectuive in the sport. Right now, he's sitting as the Vice President in the commissioner’s office.

Though his work as an executive, Billy Bean has worked towards making the American Baseball world more LGBTQ-friendly. One way that he does that is by talking to teams about LGBTQ issues in the sport.

Of course, as OutSports reports, that can cause problems sometimes.

In 2015, baseball player Daniel Murphy stated how he “disagreed” with Bean’s sexuality after having one of those team discussions with the man.

The former New York Mets player said:

“I disagree with his lifestyle. I do disagree with the fact that Billy is a homosexual. That doesn’t mean I can’t still invest in him and get to know him. I don’t think the fact that someone is a homosexual should completely shut the door on investing in them in a relational aspect.”

Not only did Bean stick to the high road by responding with, “I appreciate that Daniel spoke his truth,” but he persisted in communicating with Murphy.




Fast forward to today, Murphy, who plays for the Washington Nationals now, says that he’s become good friends with Billy Bean.

As Bean told SNY TV in New York:

“The good part of the story is that over time, because of the interest of so many people, both sides, him and his wife contacted me and we started a friendship, and he said that I helped him to start to consider things from a different perspective and I thought it was generous of him to do that. ...”

“I’m sure that he’s never had a gay friend that’s in his current life. The fact that we have baseball in common, he can see from a distance the work that I try and do and I can watch the influence he tries to have with the platform he has.”

Billy Bean is a great example of why we need openly gay leaders in all fields of life. By being open theses leaders not only show others that its possible, but they can start discussions about LGBTQ-issues in their given field.

We want to thank Billy Bean for his efforts for both LGBTQ people and the baseball community. He’s truly a hero.

h/t: Outsports