...because he gets to come home to all of the above!

Terry Miller's been garnering as many headlines as his famous husband, Dan Savage, this month, thanks to an offer to become a swimwear model. 

So, how does Dan feel about Terry flaunting his ripped body in racy promotions? 

San Francisco 49ers, what's going on with you guys?! First the Chris Culliver gaffe and now some of you apparently wish you could take back your appearance in an "It Gets Better" video? This team is not doing its hometown proud this week. 

SF 49ers have denied their participation in the "It Gets Better" video seen 'round the world. After reporters showed them the video and the players saw themselves mumble some words from a script, they apparently wanted to distance themselves from the project.

Updated Friday, 2 p.m. EST:

We shared with you the exciting news last week that Dan Savage and Terry Miller (creators of the "It Gets Better" project) were among the many couples we got married in Washington state. And now we have the wedding portraits! 

Follow the jump to see the happy couple!

There are Christians who love the gays--and we don't mean love as in merely "tolerate." They're supportive of our community and our desire to get married to our same-sex partners. Let's call them "the Christian left."

So why do these Christians get lumped in with the fundamentalist whackos that say we're all going to Hell, push gay kids to suicide, and actively fight to ensure that the LGBT community is treated as second class citizens?

Dan Savage, who the evangelical Christian right loves to classify as a bully when he calls them out on their homophobia and the way it detrimentally effects gay people and specifically gay youth, thinks it's because the Christian left "isn't loud enough." 

Watch after the jump!

Hundreds of same-sex couples planning to tie-the-knot at Seattle City Hall on Sunday as part of Dan Savage's mass gay wedding were in need of an equally impressive number of judges to officiate the ceremonies. So, nearly a dozen judges announced today that they will volunteer their time and chambers to marry the couples as needed for the big celebration!

Gay and lesbian couples in the Seattle and Olympia areas started lining up at midnight to obtain some of the first same-sex marriage licenses in the state. Dan Savage and husband Terry Miller (who married in Canada in 2005) were part of the historic group. More photos and details after the jump!

There will be more rice found at Seattle's City Hall on Sunday than all the P.F. Chang's after 140 same-sex couples tie the knot in a mass wedding organized by Dan Savage. 

Dan Savage really, really wants Tony Perkins to take part in the great American litigious tradition. For the second time (this time in the form of a video) the activist practically gets down on his knees to beg hate group leader Tony Perkins to make good on his promise of a lawsuit. 

So, what does Dan now have to say about Tony's threat? 

Dan Savage, a Washington resident, took a moment out of patting the LGBT community's back to applauding the oft overlooked straight allies who helped bring marriage equality to the Evergreen State. 

So, what does Dan have to say to our hetero friends?

Oof. The Family Research Council is pulling no punches as it attempts to link President Obama to the ever outspoken Dan Savage. 

Their basic "message"?? It Gets Better Project founder Dan Savage is an anti-Christian bully and Obama likes him so don't vote for him. (Because clearly the two men are thick as thieves and Savage's rhetorical choices are far more harmful than any of the hate rhetoric the FRC spews on a daily basis.)

Watch their desperate ad after the jump.

Whoops! Did Mario Lopez, the subject of some pretty serious man-lust from the gays, just put himself on our shit list?

The former, Mr. A.C. Slater and new host of The X Factor tweeted on Oct. 7:

“Why does it seem like I always crave Chick-fil-A on Sundays?? #Frustrating.”

Not surprisingly the tweet isn't being met with a positive response...

More after the jump!

Set your DVRs! Or, you know, watch live. (Do people still do that?)

MTV and Logo are set to air the second It Gets Better special tonight at 11 p.m. EST/PST!

Preview and more after the jump!