When winter rolls around and the temperatures start to be single digits and you’re looking for a quick getaway for a great gay weekend, week, vacation, I would have to say two of the most popular vacation spots I hear come up are Fort Lauderdale / Wilton Manors and Puerto Vallarta.
Since I live in Fort Lauderdale, I was excited to see what Puerto Vallarta had to offer to make it mentioned on the same guidebook page of great vacation spots. Fortunately for me, Puerto Vallarta Pride in 2018 was on my itinerary. It would be my maiden voyage to Puerto Vallarta, one of the most visited cities in all of Mexico. I could not wait to find out why so many Americans and other international tourists vacation and move to PV.
Before I get into my trip last year, let’s show you some events coming up soon in Puerto Vallarta.
Every November, as the cold descends upon North America and Europe, thousands of gay guys flock to the shores of Puerto Vallarta for the annual White Party Sunset Pool event at the Manatamar Beach Club
Are you ready for 2018? We are giving you life as White Party brings a night of enchantment, magic, and secrets for WHITE PARTY PUERTO VALLARTA during New Years Eve
For more events, like Puerto Vallarta Pride, May 18, 2020 until May 25, 2020, check out gayguidevallarta.com . Now back to our trip to Pride 2018, which will hopefully give you some options to consider on your voyage to PV.
Our trip to the Mexican region was to last from Monday to Monday, so it was divided up into two parts. The first leg found us in Nayarit, Mexico at the W in Punta de Mita. Checking out the hotel on YouTube before our arrival, we could not wait to walk the grounds, enjoy the beach, the pool, the spa, and our room which was to be our own slice of heaven.
The view from our chaise lounge on our private patio at the W Punta de Mita.
It was a treat to wake up to this view, and it was hard to leave, but being in this part of the coast, roughly a 30-minute ride northwest of Puerto Vallarta, there were little towns and sites we needed to see. The area, Punta de Mita, is in a different state of Mexico than Puerto Vallarta know as Nayarit, where as PV is in Jalisco.
We rode through San Francisco which is known by all as San Pancho (there’s another popular SF). There was also ample time to explore Sayulita, the surf capital of Riviera Nayarit. Watching the surfers in front of Don Pedro’s restaurant.
Don Pedros was a great place to refuel as well as watch the surfers.
In 1992, two cousins, Damien and Nicholas, set off from Los Angeles on a surf and culinary adventure. Making their way south, they stumbled upon a diamond-in-the-rough called Sayulita. With one phone line in town at the Paleteria and hardly any other services, Sayulita was a dusty fishing village that time seemed to have forgotten. Tucked into a jungle-clad bay with a consistent rivermouth break, Sayulita’s serene natural beauty and the warm hospitality of the locals impressed the two travelers. So much that they decided to stay. And thus a dream began to crystallize – to build a world-class restaurant on the beach of this little paradise. Like many passionate dreamers, they were laughed at, told it would never work. But true to the old adage “if you build it, they will come”, they did… and the people came. Over fourteen years later, they keep coming back.
After a day tour of Sayulita, we were in for a treat, dinner at Carolina Restaurant at the St Regis, one the few 5 diamond AAA award and one of the 120 best restaurants in Mexico.
The view from Caroline Restaurant at the St Regis.
While in Punta de Mita, we planned a day of complete relaxation, starting with a boat ride to the Marietas Islands – the entrance to Banderas Bay. It was the wrong time of the year to enjoy some of the world’s most spectacular whale watching, but while among the islands, we saw hidden beaches and had the opportunity to kayak, paddle board, snorkel, and dive.
On the islands, we saw blue-footed boobies and brown-footed boobies (which actually had yellow feet).
Feet away from our departure and landing point for out boat journey was Tuna Blanca – a spot where the views and the food did not disappoint.
The view at Tuna Blanca was distracting us from the great food. We were able to enjoy both views and morsels.
Since the day was about relaxation and enjoyment, the afternoon found us enjoying the W Punta de Mita Spa – Away Spa. Note: always arrive early for your spa treatment since most spas have amenities that you can enjoy before your appointment. The joy we had in the hydro-therapy area of Away Spa was almost unmeasurable, and then we were welcomed into the spa room, which we never wanted to leave.
This draw-dropping beautiful view is brought to you by the Away Spa – W Punta de Mita. Yes, we spent an hour right here in heaven.And then another hour was spent enjoying this room.
We had to depart the W as Thursday through Monday morning, our abode would be Costa Sur Resort & Spa (www.costasurpuertovallarta.com/lgbt-travel/). The hotel welcomed us with open arms and rainbows galore. We had a great discussion with the wedding coordinator Maythé and how the hotel prides itself on being a grand resort perfect for romantic getaways, honeymoons, and same-sex weddings and its location on a private beach just 7 minutes away from the Romantic Zone of Puerto Vallarta
If this was for a simple luncheon for us at Costa Sur Resort & Spa, we can imagine how grand the lgbt weddings are here!
We opted for the all-inclusive option at the Costa Sur Resort and were happy with our selection.
As part of the Pride festivities, we were invited to the pride press meeting, where we ran into Steve Grand (far left) looking all yummy in his shorts and boots.
The Puerto Vallarta Pride Parade was on Thursday night in the Malecon section of town. We love experiencing prides in different nations as they are a refreshing break from the commercialized offerings we often have here in the United States. It was not a lengthy parade, but very enjoyable. The pride celebration itself has been growing over the years, almost doubling each time, from 1,100 to 2,500 to 5,800 to 11,600 and to last year’s roughly 24,000. Turnout was expected to be the same this year which is great for a town just over 200,000 people and also wonderful since this time of year is pretty warm in PV. Asking promoters why Pride was scheduled for May, one reason was that May was a slower tourism month, mainly because of the beginning of the hot and humid season. Living in Florida, we were used to it, except there was less air conditioning.
Dinner was served in the pool/courtyard area of Medregal
After the Pride Parade, we were treated to dinner at Medregal, the restaurant serving the beautiful Villa Mercedes Hotel. Besides multiple plates of yumminess, we were treated to some great unique mezcal libations. What better way to get ready for the Pride Block Party, lasting until 2 AM.
Well, of course we are going to check out the Pride Block Party!La Noche is where we spent most of the night. We were sweatting, the dancers were sweating. It was a hot night all around!
The rest of the time in Puerto Vallarta was spent doing some more relaxation as well as some touristy offerings. Here’s a few.
We did about 9 stops on the tour with half of them involving tacos, even a goat taco!
One-of-a-kind Food Tastings.
A guided 3 to 3½ hour food and city walking tour featuring ten food tasting locations carefully chosen to highlight the best regional flavors Puerto Vallarta has to offer. Enough for a satisfying lunch, you will enjoy a sampling of mouth-watering foods at family-owned restaurants and stands, sip on refreshing local drinks and even enjoy a fresh tortilla straight from the conveyor belt. (www.vallartafoodtours.com/original-downtown-tour)
Dinner at Garlands del Río
Our “romantical” dinner spot at Garlands del Río. The live music made the evening more special than we could have imagined.
This Majestic Bed and Breakfast located directly on the Rio Cuale is a masterpiece. Garlands del Rio bed and breakfast represents a rustic yet magical time in Puerto Vallarta. Each room has a character and personality inspired by longtime residents of Puerto Vallarta. These beautiful rooms make up a Garland of beauty and relaxation. Garlands has 17 true Vallarta-style rooms with antiquated bathrooms that span around a luscious sapphire blue pool.
Drag Derby at Amapas Neigborhood
Our view of the Drag Derby from behind the stage. Full drag, heels, and sports … these queens meant business.
Drag Derby
As part of the Drag Derby, contestants had to race down the side walks and, among other activities, battle against a Trump piñata. We thought we’d share some of this amazing activity.
Even if you are not staying on the beach, check out a beach resort. We spent some time at Mantamar. We spent a couple of hours there.
Check out the very welcoming massage boys that offer a free 10-minute foot massage.
Yep, we were a sucker and paid for a full hour and full body massage and we have no regrets.
I had the first foot massage, then everyone followed suit. I had no problem being a voyeur.
We did many other things on this trip. Puerto Vallarta offers some great experiences, both in the restaurants, bars, and on the water.
The balance we had between Punta de Mita and Puerto Vallarta was a great one. It helped us enjoy two very different parts of the Pacific Mexican coast.
We’ve been invited to visit Puerto Vallarta in February before and after this Pride/birthday celebration, we will definitely jump at the chance. Our PV cherry is no more. Pride is a great time of year to go to PV as the party atmosphere is in full swing, the weather is hot, and love/lust is in the air, but we may desire a little bit cooler temps as well as a better time to see the whales and orcas as they swim off the coast. We also want more time just to walk and enjoy the city. The architecture, art, colors, and people of PV are very welcoming and deserve to be appreciated. Now that we got some of the touristy activities out of the way, we’re ready to return and soak up the Puerto Vallarta lifestyle.
See you there!
Here are some more pics from our jouney.
We loved our greeting at the W Punta de Mita
Artwork was everywhere. We loved this installation at the Polo Club.One of the few sports Mexico has won an Olympic Medal in, polo is a great past time and blossoming sport int he Sayulita area of MexicoBeautiful views where ever you look.So many VW Beetles, so little time!One of the local artist shops we visited.We received a quick history lesson on yarn art.View of our table at Caroline Restaurant at the St Regis, one of the few 5 Star restaurants in the area.At the St Regis, he asked us if we wanted to Sabre a Veuve bottle as part of the nightly sunset ritual, we said we were better at drinking.Our friendly greeter at the W Punta de MitaYes, a coconut drink at the W Punta de Mita was needed and loved.One of the stops as part of our food/taco tour.We loved all of the street art visible around every corner.Gaby’s was one of the stops on the food tour where we enjoyed tequila, moles, and air conditioningOur greeter at Gaby’sLorena Herrera was THE performer for PV Pride. Defilitely ook up her sexy videos.The women are not left out of the Pride celebration. The Pink and Proud party (women only) is in its 4th year and still going strong.We attended The Big Top Party at Sky Top Bar which was just a smaller version of Eliand Cohen’s PAPA PARTY. Basically Eliad dancing on the stage with a 2-minute self-promotional video playing on loop behind him.Pano picture of BLONDIES bar. WE will definitely stop here again.
One of the models during the PV fashion show. Undies and bathing suits were the only two options and we did not mindWe stopped into the White Party Puerto Vallarta.The night was full of bulging white undies and glowing body paint. Both were over done some times. This one looked just right.
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Mantamar Beach Club Bar & Grill (https://mantamarvallarta.com/en)
