Are you not a fan of butt sex? Do you feel alone in the gay community? It seems that everyone wants penetration out there and that's about it. If you've been on any of the apps, I would sat 98% of the guys are looking to be penetrated or do the penetrating and if you say you're not interested in either position, blocked, deleted, crickets. If you're looking for just some oral and no anal on the App-o-shpere, is it best of luck to you my dear?
Zachary Zane tells us in his latest video, it's okay to not desire butt sex if you're a gay or bi male, but figure out why.
This is for all those guys out there who are intimate with other guys, but aren't sure if they're gay/bi because they have no desire in having anal sex. – youtube.com
So what do you think?
Is it okay to not desire penetration play when having sex?
Is it because you think it's gross? Because of the poop?
Because it will make you really gay?
Can you boil it down to internalized homophobia?
Or is it because you find no pleasure in it at all?