Colleges May Soon Offer LGBT-Only Housing As An Option

When I was in college, the different types of housing we could sign up for were the quiet dorm, the seniors only dorm, off campus housing, and chem-free housing. There were certain dorms that had traditionally ben the jock dorms, the "crunch / granola" dorm, the theatre dorm, but those were just by word and tradition, but not policy. 

As students finalize picking their rooms this year for the fall return, next year there may be a new category to choose from, LGBT-only housing.

Students at the University of York and University of Central Lancashire want to introduce LGBT-only housing. Placing vulnerable students with shared experiences together seems like a pragmatic, sensible move, after all. But critics – both gay and straight – have labelled the measures unnecessary, backwards, a barrier to integration and, somewhat inevitably, as leading to heterosexual discrimination.

Stonewall’s own tepid comments on the issue suggest even they remain unconvinced; universities should instead focus on building an inclusive and accepting culture.

Except our culture is neither of those things, and abstract statements from equality charities will do little to change that. Abuse and discrimination on the grounds of sexual orientation and gender identity is a reality for many LGBT people, crimes which are rising in frequency, crimes which often go unreported. And it’s people who are the most visibly queer and don’t pass as straight who are most at risk, especially those living outside liberal metropolitan bubbles or the more progressive universities campuses.

Feeling safe in your own home is a pretty basic expectation, and LGBT-exclusive housing gives these students a space where they can be themselves, totally free from judgment and bigotry. They don’t need to panic about unprovoked, aggressive reactions if they come out to flatmates, or check themselves for fear of being a bit too queer (there’s no such thing). It’s especially important for the trans community, which contends with the some of the highest levels of violence and discrimination.

Sana Iqbal, student council chair at the University of Central Lancashire, suggested it would be better to raise awareness of LGBT issues to protect vulnerable students, rather than provide their own housing. Why not do both? Providing vulnerable students with separate accommodation doesn’t negate the need for universities to educate their students about different identities. Nor would it coincide with the creation of an impenetrable divide between the queer and straight student communities.

Integration doesn’t stop with student accommodation; housing LGBT students together won’t prohibit them from mixing with the wider community. It isn’t a case of segregation – it’s about choice. There are plenty of LGBT students who would probably reject the opportunity to stay in separate accommodation, as is their right. But no one stands to gain from forcing vulnerable students into a situation that makes them uncomfortable.

University can be the perfect space for LGBT people to discover themselves; it was for me, and the support I received from my housemates was an invaluable part of that. But some people arrive at university already bearing the scars that come with years of homophobic, biphobic or transphobic torment. The opportunity to guarantee their own safety and live with like-minded people should be afforded from them. It won’t protect them from prejudice in wider society, but it will offer them a reprieve. No one should consider themselves “lucky” or grateful simply because their university experience was free from abuse. – theguardian.com

Do you think LGBT-only housing is a good idea? 

Would you have signed up for LGBT-only housing if it was offered at your college?

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h/t:  theguardian.com

4 thoughts on “Colleges May Soon Offer LGBT-Only Housing As An Option”

  1. i see it as a form of

    i see it as a form of segregation which would not be good. If you want off campus room mate type housing, fine. But specifically "gay" dormitories? No.

  2. First, representing only 2%

    First, representing only 2% of the population I'm sure not even the smallest dorm would be filled.  Maybe a wing?

    And of course the problem of segregation breeding alienation.  As with race or ethnic groups, when you live next to someone who's a little different than you, they don't seem all that strange.

    At 18 or 19, I still can't see a lot of kids committing themselves to living in the 'gay dorm'. A number of people probably still don't even know which way the wind blows, so to speak. 

    The 'theater' dorm has always served this purpose adequately, and I imagine will continue to do so.  Stage-struck girls and their gay BFFs. 

  3. If I’d had the opportunity

    If I'd had the opportunity way back when I went to university… I'm not sure I would have because I was hiding in the back of my closet. sad But I would like to think if I had the choice, maybe it might have made me feel safe enough to come out earlier.  So yes I support the option 100%!

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