Diplo‘s been spilling the tea lately, and it’s hot. The DJ and Grammy-winning producer recently revealed why he’s such a regular at gay bars, and spoiler: it’s not just for the cute guys. “They’re, like, actually having fun,” he said—and honestly, who can argue with that? Gay bars are where the party always is, and he’s here for it.
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On The Set List podcast with Carter Gregory, he got real about his nightlife choices. While Gregory joked that he only sees the legendary DJ in “partying capacity,” he’s not here to play coy. “And I only see him at gay bars,” Gregory added, and Diplo confirmed with a smile. Why? Because gay bars are where the real energy lives. “They don’t give a fuck,” he said. “They’re, like, actually having fun.” Can we get an amen for that?
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In a city like L.A., where the energy can sometimes feel flatter than a bad Tinder date, he says gay bars are the only real events worth attending. Forget the VIP sections and overpriced cocktails. He’s all about the queer spaces where people let loose without a care in the world. And let’s face it, gay people are legendary for having the most fun—so of course, he’s all in.
Music, Freedom, and… Gay People on the Frontlines
But let’s not forget that his respect for the LGBTQ+ community runs deeper than just a night out. The man knows that gay culture has been shaping the soundscape for years. He credits “a lot of gay, black men” for defining the genres that fuel his work, especially house music. He’s basically saying gay guys are the original music disruptors—way ahead of the curve when it comes to creativity.
According to Diplo, gay men are freer and crazier when it comes to music, and that’s exactly why they’re always on the cutting edge. “They’re able to just push the envelope a lot more than straight guys,” he said. And honestly? Preach. The queer community’s ability to create chaos and magic all at once is what keeps him coming back for more.
Charli XCX, Gay Bars, and THAT Energy
And don’t even get him started on the real fun of gay audiences. Diplo recalled watching Charli XCX perform in Brooklyn and realized something that we’ve all known for years: gay people are louder and prouder than any other crowd. We’re talking uncontrollable, full-on energy. If you’ve ever been to a gay bar, you know exactly what he’s talking about—when the beat drops, the only thing louder than the bass is the crowd, and he’s here for it. He’s been to some insane parties, but there’s something about the way queer people get down that just hits different.
The Diplo Question: Is He or Isn’t He?
Now, the burning question: Is Diplo gay? Well, as it turns out, he’s as fluid as his beats. Last 2023, he made waves with his iconic, and completely unbothered comment: “I’ve gotten a lot of blow jobs, but I don’t know.” Classic Diplo, right? But don’t expect him to throw a label on himself anytime soon. “I’m not not gay,” he said, which—honestly—could mean anything and could mean everything.
He’s not one to be boxed in, and we’re here for that. He doesn’t want to define himself by any one thing—he’s just living his best life, enjoying the ride. “There are a couple of guys I could date, life partner-wise,” he added with a shrug, leaving the door wide open for possibilities. And honestly, who’s not intrigued by that?
Conclusion: Diplo Knows Where the Party’s At
So, what’s the takeaway here? Simple: Diplo loves gay bars because they’re a celebration of freedom, joy, and so much energy. The beats are loud, the drinks are strong, and the people—well, the people are everything. Gay bars have always been the spaces where people can be unapologetically themselves, where they can dance like no one’s watching and live out their wildest fantasies (and maybe even get a few blow jobs along the way—thanks, Diplo).
As for Diplo, he’s living proof that when you want to find the best party in town, the gay scene is where it’s at. So here’s to the nights out that are just that fun, just that loud, and just that unapologetically gay. Diplo’s only following the beat—and we’re all dancing along with him.