Here’s my opinion, we welcome yours.
So someone was outed. Someone that apparently looked pretty gay and might have acted pretty gay and someone I had never really heard of before since I don’t buy cookies and don’t stalk people online that I am not friends with. Crumbl Co-Founder Sawyer Hemsley Comes Out was a post we put up on August 26th. I felt happy for the man as he was being his authentic self. WE like when people come out to themselves and others as it means a new beginning usually. And it shows others that it is okay to be out, even if you have very different, hard, unsafe circumstances, there is hope to be yourself someday. But as we learned more about why Hemsley had to come out and address the rumors and speculation and what was the most recent catalyst, we lost a little bit of faith in our society.
Yes sure people are gay and in the closet and can hide their sexuality well, all their lives, and for some people it’s a glass closet where all can see that, yes, you are gay, but others respect that person’s personal choices, and then we do have effeminate men that are straight and they go through life just fine, not in a closet since they are not gay.
Apparently the gay buzz buzz buzz about Hemsley came to a head because of Grant Gibbs from “A Twink and a Redhead” decided to respond to a video he saw with Hemsley in it.
@grantegibbs Y’all I’m dying 😭 can someone fill me in on the tea with him bc I quite literally have never seen a gayer man 😭 #gay #crumbl #ceo #wtf #omg
Grant stated:
“That man is so gay. That man is gay to the gods. There’s a genetic component to sexuality, mama, and let’s just say, he has the gene and there’s no denying evolution, babe.
I’ll say it to his face! I don’t care if I’m outing a CEO with millions of dollars. I don’t give a fuck.”
And then Sawyer Hemsley feels he needs to come out. Does Grant feel bad? He tries to show that he so sorry for his post by spending quality time in a well thought out and respectful apology.
Sorry not Sorry Hemsley
AS IF. No, he decides to throw together a pile of verbal diarrhea while his camera mistress shoots a TikTok while waiting for a train. “Hurry up, our train is coming” she says to him. Yes, your crafting an apology for changing someone’s life forever, so it’s best to do that while you have negative 3 minutes of free time. Just watch this appalling attempt at being human.
@grantegibbs I’m genuinely sorry I clocked your tea in such a massive way, but I am really happy and proud of you sister @Sawyer Hemsley ❤️❤️❤️ #crumbl #gay #loveislove #comingout #pride
Thank goodness Hemsley has a chiseled body, lots of money, and homes. Since he has that stuff, Grant feels that Hemsley will be alright. And of course, Hemsley must have a nice hole, because, why not. Indeed, talking about Hemsley’s asshole was part of Grants well thought out, heartfelt apology. Jesus! Are you fucking serious? We are not sure why he left out penis size or if he knows if Hemsley is on PrEP or not. PrEP solves everything these days so if he’s on that, he’s going to have a great out and proud gay life, right? Maybe he could add that part at the next train stop.
Then again, Grant stated, “I’ll say it to his face! I don’t care if I’m outing a CEO with millions of dollars. I don’t give a fuck.” Then why do the fucking apology. Does the twink not have a back bone? You should have stuck to you don’t give a fuck instead of making us see that deplorable attempt at an apology that you tried to fit in between coming down the stairs and getting on a train. “I’m genuinely sorry I clocked your tea in such a massive way, but I am really happy and proud of you sister.” Or in other words, be happy I helped you live authentically.
So, yeah, this is me, the managing editor of Instinct and his opinion. It may not reflect the magazine’s voice as we have many voices on our staff nationwide and internationally. But I was just so disgusted with Grant’s attempt at whatever he was trying to say during his busy commuting schedule after contributing heavily to the outing of someone and changing their life forever.
What are your thoughts?
She needs her internet taken away and to be put over someone’s knee and have her ass beat. That behavior is f*cking ridiculous and should be a crime. He’s an entitled little c*** with zero respect for anyone just for the clicks and there needs to be consequences and tears. I despise little queens like him and there are MANY if you just look around. They have zero etiquette and could care less who they harm for clicks and laughs. They are bullies is what they are and this goes beyond freedom of speech. He could have just as easily done this same thing to someone who isn’t a millionaire and ruined or ended their life so that excuse is BS. His ass needs to be sued and prosecuted to whatever extent is possible. It’s time for this “influencer” generation to have some staunch rules regarding behavior towards others and violations of those rules can end their little career or even put them behind bars. This is extreme bullying behavior and it should be treated as such.
Despicable clown. Seriously mental.
Last time we see you I hope.
I thought he was already out…my sister-in-law told me about the “gay” and his cousin that opened these places, like over a year ago….
How is this news now…
Fuck this bitch. She’s trash. Hope her pearls get caught in the door of the L.
as someone who grew up in the 80s when about five public figures were open and out, i have zero problem with outing folks. i don’t understand this “it’s a private thing that one has to come to terms with”. this world is still KILLING folks like us in many, many ways, and part of that is a reluctance and comfort of people in the closet who could be making the whole world know that YES, we exist just about everywhere. if you’re gay and a public figure and you get outed SO FUCKING WHAT, now you can be a beacon of hope to the rest of us who are TORMENTED in our daily lives for just being who we cannot escape.
Wow really? No one needs to put themselves at risk, whatever that risk may be in their lives, for you or for anyone else. Everyone is entitled to a personal private life period and you need to get that through your skull. Queens like you won’t though as you feel someone owes you something for whatever trauma you may have endured. All I can do is smdh at you.
Outing is only appropriate when someone is a hypocrite who is harming the community. If a Senator is passing anti-LGBTQ legislation while sliding into the glory hole every night then outing is appropriate. If someone is the CEO of a company that is funding conversion camps who has a pool boy on the side, fair game. I have no idea of the stance of Crumbl as a company, but unless the company was doing something reprehensible, then this was just being cruel- outing is violence.
But this just sounds like a an attention starved internet personality wanted some clicks, the target’s morality and political beliefs were of no concern. That is just shitty behavior from a shitty person.
Child needs to take a pause from socials, study some not-so-distant media history and look into what happened with Gawker and Peter Thiel.
Self-centered attention whore is not sorry, the “apology” video clearly depicts that. Karma will take care of the cringe twink in due time.
Outting someone is just 100% wrong! And that was no apology.