Just when things were going well for Buck (Oliver Stark) and Tommy (Lou Ferrigno Jr.) in 9-1-1, the two men have now suddenly broken up.
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If you recall, Oliver came out as bisexual in season 7 after getting jealous over Tommy and Eddie’s (Ryan Guzman) friendship. Oliver realizes he wasn’t actually jealous about the two’s friendship, rather he was jealous of Tommy’s attention on Eddie. As Buck and Tommy get closer and share their mutual admiration for Eddie, the chemistry between them is hard to ignore. Things finally come to a head when Tommy makes the first move and surprises Buck with a sweet, unexpected kiss! Fast forward to season 8 and Buck and Tommy are going through the motions of being in a sweet, and sometimes rocky, relationship–which is completely normal!
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That being said, Buck makes the first move in asking Tommy to move in with him, saying:
“I want you to move in with me. I’m ready to take the next step and I’m not saying let’s get married or engaged, even though we have the right, thanks to the brave people who came before, including you. All I’m saying is why be apart when we can be together.”
Romantic, right? Unfortunately, this wasn’t the case for Tommy, who turned down Buck’s proposal explaining that he “knows how this ends.” Okay, I know what you’re thinking, why? Buck and Tommy looked so in love with each other. Tommy explains that he knows he is Buck’s “first” (i.e. man/bisexual relationship), and he understands that he won’t be Buck’s last–as much as it pains him to say.
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In an interview with TVLine, Oliver Stark is asked about Tommy’s abrupt and unexpected decision to break-up instead of simply turning down Oliver’s offer. Oliver defended Lou Ferrigno Jr.’s character saying:
“I try and look at it from an outside perspective. Tommy is trying to protect himself. This is coming from a place of him not wanting to get hurt…maybe he’s experienced this before and doesn’t want more heartbreak. “
When asked about what Oliver thinks should be in store for his character, he mentioned texting 9-1-1’s screenwriter and director about Buck’s future telling TVLine:
“I text him all the time and just write “hashtag Let Buck F–k,” because I do think he should go out and have some fun. I think he deserves it. He should figure some things out and see what he likes.” Adding, “Buck is bisexual, so we’ll go guy, guy, girl, girl, guy, guy … I don’t know, maybe that wouldn’t work on this show.”
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Unfortunately, some people were offended by Oliver’s comments, thinking that his answers during the interview were biphobic. However, Stark took to Instagram stories to share his side of the story by replying to a comment that was said online. One of those comments read:
“I know you’re just a straight man and that nobodies perfect, but I just wanted to let you know how hurtful your latest comments about Buck are to bisexuals. Bisexuals don’t need to sleep around or have multiple partners to know what they want. We trusted Buck’s bisexuality with you, so it’s disappointing to read.”
To which Oliver responded and apologized on his Instagram stories with:
Received a number of comments like this regarding my enthusiasm for Buck to embrace being free and single and go out and enjoy himself now that he has been broken up with.
1. I would recommend the same if he was coming out of a straight relationship
2. I don’t think safe and consensual sex when single is a bad thing
3. we’ve seen buck in the early seasons use sex and dating in an unhealthy way. If ever the story was to have him go this route I would hope to show how those things can be conducted from a much healthier place.
4. Lastly – I apologise to you if my words have felt insulting. The above points mean nothing beyond my intention. If you are hurt then, regardless, I apologise and hope to continue Buck’s story in a way that feels representative
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Others have come to Oliver’s defense in light of the situation:
While another user responded: 
Personally, I don’t think Oliver intended to hurt anyone with his comments. He seemed to be focusing on how his character would evolve and move forward as a single, bisexual man. Sometimes dating after a major breakup isn’t necessarily a negative thing. However, it’s reassuring to see that Oliver is conscious of, and acknowledges, the potential impact his public comments can have on conversations within the LGBTQIA+ community.
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Honestly I see more aggression from the G part of the LGBTQ+ community towards the L, B, T, + segments of our society than from any other part of segment. Especially during the last decade. From my own observation it seems to come from the youngest and oldest segments of the gay community and that baffles me. We’ve fought long and hard for respect and safety and while we don’t outright deny that for other segments we also don’t welcome them as part of our community. It’s like ok if you wanna be bi or trans but do it over there and not in our spaces. I often see comments about how there’s no such thing as bi, and how a man who is attracted to both men and women is in denial. Why is it so hard for gay men to accept that sexuality is a broad spectrum and that “in between” is real? I get it that this article is about backlash from the bi community and I feel it’s not exactly warranted, but at the same time it’s similar to what the gay community experienced and still experiences when we are told it’s just a phase or somehow something is mentally wrong with us and can be “cured”. I choose to think we are simply protective of our spaces after such a long fight just to have those spaces, but we only harm ourselves and others, and deny ourselves love, friendship and community by doing so. I have gay “friends” who won’t even watch a movie or tv show if lead characters are female or don’t include gay themes. You can watch what appeals to you of course but the cringe I get when recommending something of such a nature astounds me. This from the same ones who will only listen to Adele or Céline LOL! Do they not have mothers and sisters too? There’s an incredible amount of hypocrisy and discrimination within our own community and directing that towards others who are different from us who are fighting the same fight simply undermines our own goals. It’s quite possible due to recent events that a lot of what we have fought for is about to be challenged and it seems to me we should wanna support each other an stand together as one large community. We do that when bad chit happens and call everyone to arms, but only when we need the larger community to stand with us. Otherwise it feels like thanks for your help now go stand back over there and exist in your own space, but not ours, until we need your strength again. Nothing I’ve said applies to everyone so don’t get butt hurt over it if this isn’t you. If you do balk at anything I’ve said then maybe it does apply to you and a mirror and some soul-searching should be on your priority list 😁
I didn’t see anything biphobic in Stark’s remarks. If a show is going to have a bisexual character, let him explore being bisexual.