Lukas Gage Breaks Down His 10% Straight, 10% Bi, 100% Gay Reality

Lukas Gage, the breakout star of The White Lotus, is living proof that identity is never a one-size-fits-all label. In a candid moment on the In Your Dreams With Owen Thiele podcast, Gage revealed that he considers himself “10% straight” and “10% bi,” sparking curiosity and a few raised eyebrows about the complexities of his sexuality. Is Lukas Gage gay? Well, it’s clear that, for him, sexuality isn’t a box—it’s a spectrum.

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“Yeah, I’m like 10% straight or 10% bi,” the actor shared nonchalantly, putting to rest any idea that sexual identity is a binary choice. This is Lukas Gage, after all—an actor who knows the value of embracing every part of who you are. He jokingly added that the “gayest thing” he’s done? Marrying Chris Appleton on television, of course. If there was ever any doubt about where he stands, he certainly dispelled it with that statement.

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Not a Gold-Star Gay, But Definitely Gay

“I’m pretty fucking gay,” he said, referencing his Kardashians TV wedding to the celebrity hairstylist. And let’s be real, The Kardashians and a gay marriage? Definitely a strong, unapologetic statement. But just when you thought Lukas was giving us the full spectrum of gayness, he adds with a laugh, “I’m not gold-star.”

Still Hooking Up with Women (But No Emotional Attachment)

In the same breath, though, Gage acknowledges that his sexuality is fluid. He’s still hooking up with women. Yes, you read that right. In fact, when Thiele pressed him about his sexual experiences, Gage responded with a wry smile, “Multiple. Many. Still do every once in a while.” But it’s important to note, as he candidly shared, that while the physical attraction remains, the emotional connection with women just isn’t there for him. “I emotionally can’t,” he admitted. For Gage, there’s a disconnect when it comes to forming romantic relationships with women.

This self-awareness extends beyond his sexual experiences. Gage reflected on his past, admitting that he was “probably such a horrible boyfriend to all the girlfriends until I was like 20.” He explained that, at the time, he couldn’t emotionally connect in the way his partners deserved. “That was probably why I was such a horrible boyfriend,” he said with humor but also clarity. It’s evident that Lukas has been on a journey of self-discovery, and that journey is far from over.

Gage is More Than Just an Actor

Now, Gage is pouring himself into his memoir, I Wrote This for Attention, where he reflects on his tumultuous upbringing, his experiences with sexual abuse, and the complexities of navigating a broken family. In an exclusive interview with Attitude, he opened up about the book’s central message: “This book is about being seen and being validated.” For Gage, this memoir is not just a story; it’s a way to help others feel heard and understood.

“I have resistance to people forcing an agenda on someone,” he shared about the pressures of coming out in Hollywood. “Everyone deserves to do it on their own time. We should have a little bit of empathy and grace and let them do it on their time.” His approach is refreshing—reminding us all that no one’s journey is linear and that understanding and grace go a long way.

Living His Truth, One Step at a Time

Gage’s openness and vulnerability are what make him such a compelling figure, both as an actor and as a person. He’s not interested in fitting into a box or conforming to anyone’s expectations of what it means to be queer. Instead, he’s carving his own path—embracing his sexuality with a healthy mix of humor, reflection, and authenticity.

At the end of the day, Gage’s willingness to live his truth, whatever that may look like on any given day, is something many of us can relate to. After all, who says you can’t be a little straight, a little bi, and a lot gay all at once?

Watch the full podcast interview here: