Drama Teacher Claps Back At Homophobic Mom Who Pulled Kids From His Class


When I was a teacher, I always did worry as to how parents dealt with their child having a homosexual as an educator.  In my 10 years of teaching, the only issues I had were from fellow teacher being narrow minded, and one student telling HER father that I gave her detention because she would not be my date to a kegger I was throwing for the seniors.  Oh, Heather. 

I never had to get on my tall unicorn / high horse to say that LGBTQ+ teachers will cause no harm to your children.  I never had to confront a parent or child about my life, not even in very rural Maine, where the two high schools I taught at during my career consisted of 300 students and 750 students. 

Michael Neri, a drama teacher from Kidderminster, England who runs Talking Props Theatre School for kids age 8 to 13, had to deal with a narrow-minded parent.  Let's see what you think of his response after a parent said that she was pulling her kids from her class because of his sexuality.

Here's the exchange. 

What did you think?  Do you think his response was spot on? Do you think the mother just wasn't ready to try to have the birds and the bees and the rainbows chat with her kids?  Or was she just too busy thumping the bible to understand that there are other humans in the world?

How would you have responded, if at all?

And, Michael we love your donation!



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This British Model/Actor Just Came Out In A New Youtube Video

British-born but current American-resident model Zander Hodgson came out as gay recently.

The model posted a Youtube video with the title, “Zander’s IMPORTANT MESSAGE” with a description that simply says, “Hi guy, Hope you enjoy. This one kinda explains itself. Comment, Let me know what you think :) Love Zander.”

In the video itself, Zander hangs out in his LA home and explains that this video is about him coming out, which is something he’s been wanting to do for some time now.

“I brought you guys here to talk about something really important to me,’ he says at the beginning of the clip, shot in his adopted home of Los Angeles.”

“It’s been something that I’ve wanted to share with everyone for a while now. But it’s been one thing after the other that has got in the way of me being able to speak up about it.”

That thing getting in his way of coming out before was the fact that he’s in Los Angeles with the goal of making it as an actor.


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Hodgson says that its hard for gay actors his age to make it in the business because Hollywood is “not very welcoming to gay actors,” so he’s been struggling to come out.

“I don’t think there are many opportunities out there for gay men to play straight roles.”

That said, he felt this issue was too important for him not to come out and share his story.

On top of that, Zander shares that he was also confused about coming out because his family has a strong religious background and comes from a small town. Luckily though, he also shared that so far his family has been open and welcoming to him after he came out to them.

Good luck Zander Hodgson with your blossoming career and personal life. As said in the video below, “Everyone is entitled to live their full life and to live truthfully to themselves and be loved.”

Wait, Why Are We Okay With Straight Actors Playing Gay Characters? (OPINION)


Converse to our current White House administration, society has never been more woke than in 2018. We even have the word "woke." And everything about this wokeness feels as though the co-opting of gay culture would be frowned upon. An increasing number of people understand the importance of correct pronoun usage when addressing trans people. Through the #MeToo and Time's Up movements, we are finally shining a light on abuse against women and inequality in the workplace. Black Panther's $1 billion international box office haul has ushered in the era of the bankable black superhero. Katy Perry has short hair. Katy Perry has short hair people.

In 2018 we emphasize the importance of diversity as well as acknowledge the injustices facing many marginalized groups. Representation is a key factor in equality, and projects such as Lady Bird - which The Guardian called "the first truly feminist teen movie" - only underscore the importance of allowing all groups the chance to share their unique perspectives. But you know what's not diverse, and not unique, and not representation? A straight man playing a gay man. 



Here's another way to break this down. One of everyone's favorite fun facts is that during Shakespeare's time, male actors played female roles exclusively. This practice evaporated once pioneering women proved capable of acting, and society allowed them to do it. Similarly, before actors were able to come out as gay without the threat of being blacklisted, straight, or "straight," actors played gay roles.

But now we have gay actors. Capable of playing gay roles. What am I missing? It's 2018 and we're celebrating Timotheé Chamalet's bravery in licking Hammer's face in Call Me By Your Name. We're encouraging youths to watch straight actor Nick Robinson play a confused gay teen in Love, Simon, when really the message is that a gay teen is only worthy of our attention if he's portrayed by a straight actor. With straight mannerisms.

Gay actor Clark Moore's Ethan in Love, Simon was the flamboyant one. The "other." He garnered chuckles for his quips and even inspired us with his stoicism. He might have even been a hero for the way he stood up to bullies. But he wasn't the hero gay youths wanted to be. And the fact that openly gay director Greg Berlanti felt the need to relinquish the gay-acting kid to the stereotypical role of sassy BFF to a group of girls speaks volumes.

Some defend the casting of straight actors in gay roles by pointing to the fact that their star power can help a project flourish in a way that a lesser known gay actor couldn't. Others say that we don't have the talent pool of openly gay actors yet necessary to fill all the roles. Roles that we should feel thankful for existing in the first place. And while this might have been the case for the feature-length Marlboro ad Brokeback Mountain in 2005, it's 2018, and I don't need to be saved by a straight man anymore. 

The past few years have brought some true bright spots - with gay actors Wentworth Miller and Russell Tovey taking on a romantic storyline on the The Flash and fellow out actors Charlie Carver and Colton Haynes sharing a passionate moment on Teen Wolf. But for every success, there's a Dallas Buyers Club. Straight actors leverage gay roles as career opportunities, and not uncommonly as Oscar bait, but it's the struggles of real gay people that have made these roles so compelling and so multifaceted, and to swoop in at the last minute and co-opt that is no longer acceptable. It's, dare I say, un-woke.

This post is the opinion of this contributing writer to Instinct Magazine.  Opinion pieces do not always reflect the stance of the magazine or the other contributing writers.